I'm having a formation of a thought that hasn't really formed altogether, so I wanted to see if I'm wrong about this.

There's something itching in the back of my mind that says we still expect men to sacrifice for the good of society, but women have pretty much gone full hedonist and every decision they make is "what's best for me."

There's a long list of things that we, as a society, expect out of men. If a man doesn't fulfill most of these contracts, he's shamed as a low value male and pretty much shunned from society.

Feminism is fighting hard to make sure that any woman is not subject to any social contracts, and expects nothing less than "what's best for me" with no thought at all to what is best for society to function, instead of what is best for women.

This is fine if just a few narcissists take this stance, but when most women break the societal contracts, it starts to cause problems in our society.

I'm not sure that society can function well without some social contracts that are unfavorable to a gender, but favorable to society overall.

Is there any truth to this?