Right here.

tl, dr: Analytical problem solving and a functional intuition create completely incompatible mental states. They cancel each other out.

To me, it explains why, outliers aside, so many redpills are obsessed with analyzing everyone's social rank and financial status, like they were all in an MMORPG together. Meanwhile, much of the blue pill thinks everyone should just instinctively understand all the incredibly complicated and often unwritten rules of forming genuine connections - without them being explained.

We both sound incredibly, often deliberately, mean spirited and stupid to the other side. Forget whether or not the strategies work, or whether we agree with each other's ideals: The red sees the blue as hiding the information they need to improve themselves, and mocking them when they do. The blue sees the red's frequent embrace of negative stereotypes, high risk sexual behavior, and tactical manipulation as cruel, and potentially even dangerous.

It also explains why the bluepill generally gets along better with the RPW, who at least share some of our views on supporting others, and our concerns about the anger phase, or conflict based relationship theories altogether, though our views about the importance of traditional binary gender roles couldn't be further apart. Meanwhile, the purple pill mostly seems like a further refinement of the red, and like the red, much prefers to have everything analyzed and broken down.

Even our personal experiences lean towards all of this. How many blue stories feature "We poured our hearts out to each other?" How many red feature "I survived every attempt to test me."?

Of course, there will be exceptions to all of this. Some very logical blue women might easily be purple or red if they were men, some red men seem blue at heart, trying to understand and connect with loved ones who constantly test their rank.

But overall, what do you guys think? Feel free to poke any holes in this theory, or expand on it. This isn't about taking any cheap shots at anyone.