Instead of asking how to make him a better lay?
You can learn more about maintaining a healthy LTR from a glance at the RPW pintrest board, and I say that as a blue.
And while we can debate theoretical worst case scenarios involving people new to sex, there's little here covering our differences about how much escalation, and when to escalate?
C'mon, alpha, beta, omega?
It's like the most pretentious version of "Marry, fuck, kill" ever created.
Here's how it really breaks down:
If you're good at creating excitement, people looking for a thrill ride will make damn sure you have the opportunity to seduce them.
Shit test? It's more like waving the red flag in front of a bull.
Meanwhile:
If you're able to melt away all the tension in a room, people looking to melt into your arms will... you all have basic pattern recognition. Comfort tests are what most people call "Opening up and sharing." Not automatically hot, by itself, but it all depends what you're opening up and sharing, and with who.
Most guys, in their lifetimes, can handle at least one of these "tests", if not both.
So, why are we still acting like we're giving advice to clueless virgins? The clueless virgins who stick around here, usually just ignore it anyways.
And if we're going to keep behaving this way, why are we acting surprised when the clueless virgins post completely clueless observations?
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