Firstly, I'm not a violent person these are my opinions.

The gender ratio dictates that there are slightly more men born than women. for every 1 million women born there are 1 million and 60,000 men born. Nature has set up this ratio because throughout history men were typically more violent towards each other resulting in more male deaths and for enough women to still get impregnated there needed to be enough men to go around. fast forward to the current time and with all the laws and 'political correctness', women are benefitting substantially in that men's animalistic nature to draw on one of their main advantages (physical strength) has no currency anymore and men just aren't as engaged in violence with each other like they once were and as a result there are lots of extra/surplus men around, rendering any woman who is even average looking as highly in demand.

women on a primal instinctual level are attracted to violent men because like the carrying over influence on the gendered birth ratio stemming from mother nature, which is ever present, women feel it in their bones to be attracted to violent men as this is time honoured and still present despite a changing of the times.

In other words one of the best things that could happen for the average looking man, average strength man, (not the incel he was always destined to be killed in battle, but now he's just on his computer a lot) is for a violent mainly lawless (but not entirely because there will always be some laws and level of conformity demanded, but just not like how it currently is) society to actualise once again, because then the gender ratio numbers and it's nature-influenced purpose will fit the groove once again. What will result is less suffering and incidence of incels, and most men will feel a great sense of relief in that life in the context of true and by design dynamics as we know it for women and most men will be back on track, however women will not like this because they will not be swamped with romantic offers like they are now. When humans come up with all these rules and laws which especially supress men's inherent nature to be physically strong, this will always benefit women. it benefits women and those in positions of power. I am not saying no governance at all, as that is inevitable, I am saying that it has gone too far, and if men were more able to express themselves through where their advantages lie, women would be scratching their heads. its not like women's ability to remain pregnant or carry a baby is supressed. there's more incels in America than in Africa.