Women despise weak men: this is natural and expected. Weak men may become rapists, and their children will also be weak. "Toxic masculinity" is a way to separate the strong men from the weak: two men have a drinking contest. One chokes on his own vomit and dies. This is a good thing, if he's a scrawny, unmasculine man.

Or two men have a fistfight and one cracks his head open on the concrete and dies. Or a scrawny man decides that the Marines will make a man out of him. Six months later, he's ten thousand miles from home, bleeding out in some godforsaken field in Afghanistan.

This is good: women demand masculinity, strength, toughness, and skill at violence from men in order to get the weak ones killed dead.