I think that social skills in general are a HUGE factor, gigantic even, that isn't talked about enough.
How many times have you heard stories like the following?
"I worked out for 3 years and got in washboard-ab shape. Women occasionally glance at me but I don't get dates"
"I've a good career and my own place at (insert young age here like 25 or something), I'm also an amateur boxer in decent shape. Still a virgin despite everything
"After year after year, I'm a successful business owner, I have no more debts, a nice car, my own place, and I've been told I'd be a good partner. Why is it that none of the women I talk to ever "feel it" though?"
I noticed the common theme in these stories is always that the person never seems to mention social skills. Or if they do, they'll mention how they've never had issue making friends but can't get any interest otherwise. And I suspect this is because of acking any flirting ability
However I've also seen broke losers living at their mom's who can pull women no problem. I've also met guys shorter than me and a bit beneath me in looks (I'm a 6/10 at best) who can bag women with very little issue. I've known dudes upon dudes and more dudes who say that they also know dudes like this too.
Normal folk call it flirting, bloopers might call it "being yourself", terpers might call it "game", I might call it banter (dark-purple pilled btw), but whatever it is, knowing how to talk to people in a flirty context and ignite their interest is a skill that I think everyone should have.
And I think that if many average men focused a bit more on building these vital skills, the juice will be more worth the squeeze. Am I saying that average guys will become Chad and start slaying anything in sight? No not even close. But it'll make it that you'll probably start getting more dates and your wang will get more tang.
P.S: Obviously this is if you pass a minimal looks threshold for any given person. This isn't gonna work for the balding Indian janitor. And I'm more than aware that there are many who literally can't learn social skills and where it literally won't matter. I'm not saying that social skills are more important than looks, but to an average-looking man, developing some is going to be one of the best things he can do to solve his coochieless-ness
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