The recent manipulation post didn't really get to the meat of the matter. I think the way this question is phrased will help illuminate where exactly the point of contention is.
We can further explore this topic if after writing about your example, you add to it what you think is the smallest thing that could be changed about it to make it non-manipulative.
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