Women have the freedom to chase a career, have children, have it all, but nothing has changed with the responsibilities at home.

 

As igetstuckwithlosers says ‘Most men view household chores and taking care of children as effeminate and think it’s the woman’s responsibility’. Women wanted to be part of the workforce. Men didn’t coagulate and drive a campaign to be stay at home parents.

 

But somehow this means that men need to back fill at home.

 

Let me get this straight. So now a good man needs to have a career. And he needs to be good at being male. And he needs to be a good father. And he needs to be a secondary mother. And he needs to be a secondary housewife. Because it supports his spouse and her career goals.

 

He also has to do his chores like garbage, oil changes, lawn care, clogged toilets, clogged shower drains and pet poop. BUT they don’t count as they are less occurring than dishes or laundry and you hire someone else to do some of those chores anyways.

 

Must have good feminine minded listening skills that doesn’t attempt to fix shit. Just emotional support like a woman.

 

Must be a feminine approved father and feminine approved leader and have feminine approved hobbies that don’t take too much attention away from the wife and the children.

 

He must wait for feminine approved time, approved place and approved position for sex. Cannot get upset or frustrated over rejection.

 

Anything less and you’re a man child.

 

Thus, given the above, we can come to the conclusion that Strong and Independent women look specifically geared to judge men on feminine merits as well as masculine merits. Basically a man can easily be a loser but it’s nearly impossible for him to be useful ENOUGH to please some women. And if she’s not pleased then SHE is sacrificing to an unworthy loser spouse and thus she is putting more effort into the relationship; aka emotional burden.

 

Here’s the kicker – Men can do this. They just don’t get shit for doing this. Not even a fucking god damn cookie. Maybe a pity fuck on starfish mode; but don’t ask for enthusiasm she’s had a long day at work and the kids were a little too much!

 

TLDR ‘Clueless Nu Females’ ask where have all the good men gone. Answer - They’re with good women.