What i am noticing is that, most pleasantries from life, like getting invited to parties, asked out, have people approach and offer you stuff, from friendships to marriage, or just free dinners etc., getting sheltered in many situations like male friends/family/partner caring for you in sketchy situations.

While men on top of the life responsibilities everyone already has they have to be the providers of all those niceties that come by else they might not be invited to anything, nor have a group of friends, this happens sometimes in male circles too, you are forced to bring something to the table.

And it seems like women get soothed from the hardships of life, while men are pressured to soothe others hardships if he doesn't want to merely survive, this begs the question that if you add up many examples of "free shit" women get throughout their life, compared to men, they overall seem to live happier, more adventure and fun filled lives while men need to grind hard to have any kind of niceties, and most have to grind hard just to get by, so zero niceties for these men.

I honestly believe that the real problem with most of the sexually unsuccessful men is that, they don't have anything truly good about their lives, not even sex, not many friends, probably not rich or famous, and work a job they don't really love, so the lack of sex is much more damaging to these guys than the actual happy people.

Women in the same situation get access to hoeing around, going on random dates for fun, probably has an easier time making friends, and are statiscally less likely to be truly lonely, so the fact that their lives aren't particularly fun or fullfilling they get to drown those problems in hedonism quite easily.

I don't have any specific questions, these thoughts just popped up as i basically was AFKing in front of the monitor thinking, what Reddit has to say?