It seems that you guys value the age of your partner very highly and when it comes to physical attraction you prefer girls in their early 20s. I was wondering what does that mean for long term relationships? Do men simply lose interest in their partner over time but just stay with them because their lives are so intertwined? Do men secretly want to be having sex with their 18 year old daughters friends instead of their wife?

I dont understand male sexuality and relationship thinking. Also guys on here seem to worry so much for being "settled for" yet they go on to claim they are most attracted to 20 year old's, doesn't that mean every man would be settling in a long term relationship?

Also I do not buy into the idea of "wife goggles" where guys see their aging wives in the goggles of what their wives looked like when they were younger. This just doesn't make sense, everyone has eyes and you would have to be having a psychotic episode to see what's not there. Of course If a man love's his wife he will see her in a loving less judgmental light but not to the extent he still views her as hot as what she used to be.