Do Women Get Mad About Guys Getting Some of Their Assets in a Divorce Settlement?

yasee · 2019-01-31T20:45:33+00:00

no more or less unfair than the other way around

Nodoxxintoxin · 2019-01-31T23:15:36+00:00

I wouldn’t like it, especially I was divorcing my husband because he cheated on me. It’s not unfair, it’s something that I knew could happen when I got married. I would accept it and move on.

I don’t think most people like giving up money for any reason. I don’t like paying taxes, I don’t like paying insurance, etc. It wouldn’t stop me from getting remarried to someone with less assets.

MGTOWtoday · 2019-02-01T01:49:52+00:00

Christ, yes. Women hate it when their get-rich quick scams end up biting them on the ass.

sternje · 2019-02-01T03:26:49+00:00

Men: What's mine is yours, baby.

Women: What's mine is mine, baby.

shonenhikada · 2019-01-31T23:06:01+00:00

Women don't like it

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-5764019/Britney-Spears-says-not-problem-ex-Kevin-Federline-need-money-SIX-kids.html

https://www.aol.com/article/entertainment/2018/08/17/britney-spears-ordered-to-fork-over-dollar100k-to-kevin-federline-for-child-support/23504124/

GridReXX · 2019-01-31T21:06:52+00:00

Mo’Nique the comedian joked about being annoyed she had to pay her ex husband alimony in her stand up.

I’m sure whenever there’s an acrimonious split, the person who earned more or had more assets that matured during the marriage will have a bitter taste.

Willow-girl · 2019-01-31T20:54:34+00:00

I always considered it the cost of my freedom.

Mattcwu · 2019-02-01T01:04:47+00:00

Yes, i know of two women whoare very irrate abput how their divorce went. They got "almost nothing" in the divorce proceedings because their husbands found a legal loophole using trusts that keeps left the husband with 100% control of the funds in the trust. I didn't get the excat details, but it was in the State of California.

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2019-01-31T21:03:12+00:00

its not divorce rape in either case. divorce rape is an idiotic concept. i married my h specifically so he could own and inherit everything i own as easily (legally and logistically) as possible. that he could divorce me and take half is not a consideration, if it happens it happens. that was the risk i took in marrying him. i was under no assumptions otherwise and frankly, i dont beleive any man who marries is either i think its a manosphere fiction

darla10 · 2019-02-01T11:57:04+00:00

I got mad because I was stupidly under the impression my ex wouldn’t ask for alimony or child support since he was the one who unilaterally decided to ‘not work’; a decision that in part led to the divorce. I believed we would both walk away and go out separate ways. Unfortunately my assumptions were dead wrong.

goldmedalflower · 2019-01-31T22:31:31+00:00

Yes they think this way, no they won't admit it.

downvotesanimals · 2019-01-31T23:12:00+00:00

Same reason men do: because it sucks.

cxj · 2019-02-01T07:09:28+00:00

I’m an RN and have known several female RNs pretty pissed about divorce and CS issues, and rightfully so imo. They are burning out on the floor for that 110k a year and can’t quit due to retarded ideas of “fairness.” Can’t say it’s good for the patients either

RibenaFae · 2019-02-01T09:23:20+00:00

Where I'm from there is no alimony. We have no fault divorce and whatevee an individual puts into the marriage is what they get out of it.

LeaneGenova · 2019-01-31T22:46:49+00:00

Not at all. It's why I'm getting married. I want him to have access to my assets, and I want him to have a stake in the home I'm buying.

It's why I'm in favor of a prenup, because I know that I'm a giant asshole and if my relationship fails, I'd be liable to try to screw my wonderful SO over. So my rational self is going to prevent me from being the bitch I know I can be, to protect my SO and ensure his entitlement to my assests.

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boomcheese44 · 2019-01-31T22:31:08+00:00

Whoever was jilted would have the bitter taste on their mouth about it. But women dont stew over these things...they realize thats a reality if they ever divorce.

classylassy28 · 2019-02-01T00:23:30+00:00

Of course they get mad, just like men who get that end of the stick get angry too...then they mgotw lol.

chubby_leenock_hugs · 2019-02-01T03:25:42+00:00

"mad"? I don't get mad at anything that's not my parent but I think marriage is bullshit and property that is not liquid should not be shared. The only time it makes sense for multiple individuals to share property is when they are joint owners of a company whose assets are liquid and can thus be evenly distributed amongst them. You can easily say you both own half of the company in terms of shares but half of a TV? How does that even work; the problem with a TV is if you cut it in half both parts become worthless.

Which is why I wouldn't ever get a manus marriage and where I live marriage by default is usus as in you retain your own independent property and only the biggest weirdos go for manus.

Regarding divorce alimony it should be handed by contract law I feel; it should apply when people agreed to prior in a legally binding agreement to do so.

With regards to tax free inheritance: I am opposed to gift and inheritance tax. Inheritance tax is inherently problematic because you often inherit things that aren't liquid so how do you pay 15% of an antique clock to the state? Someone is going to have to subjectively decide how much that clock is "worth" and those people are paid for by the government and thus have an incentive to up the value in favour of their client. I however do believe in property tax but that shouldn't be based on the worth of your property but the amount of effort the police and other services need to put in to protect it and keep it in good condition.

wereallcrazyson · 2019-02-01T05:19:44+00:00

rent from 1 room of a modest house

nemma88 · 2019-02-01T08:21:43+00:00

I think if you want to generalize women care less about money. But the divide probably isn't that big.

But more importantly, it's only 10% about the money anyway for anyone. It's being abandoned by the person you thought would be there for you. If your the one to leave and pay for it don't tend to get so bitter about it. It's far more about who left / caused the break.

poppy_blu · 2019-02-01T09:21:00+00:00

If you live in a community property state they aren’t “your” assets. This is a reality people need to come to terms with or not get married.

we-are-men-with-ven · 2019-02-01T16:02:44+00:00

Eh, no one likes losing money. Whether or not it's justified.

throwawaygoodwood · 2019-02-02T16:48:23+00:00

We were young and there weren't a huge amount of assets when I divorced so I wasn't ever going to be bothered by the amounts. I think what annoyed me were the little things. I'd done a lot of hunting really cool things down cheap (furniture, light fittings, curtains etc) in the days before the internet made this easy, and he didn't give a shit about style but I knew I couldn't take all that labor away with me because there would be too many gaps left in the fit-out of the household if i did that. Just annoying. Threw pearls before swine, left the swine to wallow around in pearls.

LillthOfBabylon · 2019-04-20T00:15:45+00:00

In other words, do women act like people?

PennnyLame · 2019-01-31T21:11:13+00:00

No. I don’t think divorce rape is a thing and I don’t really care the gender of the person paying their ex-spouse. My husband likes to tease me that I’ll have to pay him alimony if I ever leave him. He’s kept me sane while I work like crazy and is entitled to half of what we built together if hell freezes over and we part ways.

SilentLurker666 · 2019-01-31T23:22:00+00:00

Your response right here: http://money.com/money/4116161/alimony-reform-spousal-support/

sublimemongrel · 2019-01-31T22:07:45+00:00

No, I wouldn’t

it_was_awiens · 2019-01-31T22:29:51+00:00

Wondering if women consider the guy getting more than the woman in a divorce settlement unfair?

I don't think there is enough instances of this happening to come to a reasonable conclusion. In general, women don't marry people who are less wealthy than themselves.

($465 per month)

Better than nothing I guess.. but far from what real divorce rape is like

dudenotrightnow · 2019-02-01T00:34:52+00:00

men fuck over women financially more often than you would realize. this is why a women shouldn't date guys poorer than them!

red__aaron · 2019-02-01T00:58:00+00:00

Is this a thing you’ve seen lots of women complaining about? I sure haven’t

Title	Do Women Get Mad About Guys Getting Some of Their Assets in a Divorce Settlement?
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Date	January 31, 2019 8:37 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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