Instead of why women need promiscuous phase I want to say why do people from all kinds background need to engage in promiscuous behavior. I know you all will say if that's what people want then let them do it. I have no intention of restricting those people behaviors. I am more concerned about romantics like me being pressured to sacrifice our values to participate in casual sex. You cannot deny there are negative affects of some people (romantics) from engaging in casual sex. I want to protect them and the romantic culture they were raised in. I don't want romance to be reserved for only 30 year olds. I want adolescents to have freedom to engage in serious relationships and freedom from culture pressures that's says they are too young or it will inevitably fail.

This is my theory that you all will disagree with me on both feminist and red pillers but people engage in casual sex because of social values not biological imperative there is no human nature or correct way to be. In fact for hook up culture to exist I think society would have to diminish and reduce romance in media, teach kids about sex and casual sex before romance, encourage promiscuous phase. To me a promiscuous phase is stealing love from our youth. I know how you redditers work nothing I will say will change your mind and you all will continue to strawman me because that's all you can do. If you actually engage with me in faithful discussion and try to understand me and treat me like a human you all then you are scared I might have a point here so in order to avoid this fear you demonize me and shut me down, you don't give me time to explain myself at all.

I am not an incel like you all like to imagine me as, I am working out, exploring my small town, and hanging out with my close friends. Also I am hot and I know it multiple people including my gay guy friends and female friends say I am hot and cute and they love my humor. I literally can get any girl I want just by being myself. I didn't ask out my female friends because the live far away.

Edit: a lot of you people say people should have right to pursue what they want but you are hypocritical. Romantics are pressured into promiscuous phase and give up their values. So how do you people suggest we create a society that is neutral I am curious. What do we teach kids what should their media be like how do people develop romantic principal how should people be given the choice to either couple romance and sex or uncouple them. Hypothetically speaking if a society exist in which no one wants casual sex why should casual sex be an option that they are presented even if no one wants it.

Edit 2: why can't romantic keep their principals why should they engage in casual sex not everyone wants variety not everyone needs to decouple sex from romance. I just want romantics to have our own community different from hook up culture. I firmly believe a community has a right to regulate itself and it's members how ever they want. I am a collectivist so that's why I think you folks have a hard time understanding me. I want a romantic community that's distinct from hook up culture.