Do you agree with the observation that FDS women buying themselves an engagement ring is the equivalent of an incel buying himself a sex doll?

upalse · 2021-01-04T12:51:56+00:00

Incel is ashamed of the doll, because it's admission of failure. FDS are over-reliant on self-delusion of success. While this does actually work with low self-esteem people - as a therapy, it can't be done in the long run as you completely lose touch with reality.

thelajestic · 2021-01-04T12:59:02+00:00

They're both stupid. I don't get the engagement ring thing though, if you want jewellery it's not weird to buy yourself jewellery, why does it need to be an engagement ring 🤔 at least I can see why someone would get a sex doll even if it is creepy.

step_aside_butch_ · 2021-01-04T13:16:05+00:00

No, this getting engaged to yourself is a whole new level of pathetic.

Yeah Inc5l's buying sex dolls, its pathetic, but its better they do that than go on a raping and/or shooting spree.

But getting engaged to yourself is just sad. At least they are making it clear they are FDS though.

Also an inc5l knows deep down he is a loser and what he is doing is pathetic. FDS are actually encouraging and praising each other for this. And they seem to believe their own BS.

It would be more like a guy not being able to get laid and somehow fucking himself up the ass, then broadcasting it online.

Creative-Anxiety-244 · 2021-01-04T15:48:36+00:00

More like women buying dildos but that is considered empowering at least in the West. Shouldn't women be happy if incels buy sex dolls? They won't have to bother with all the ugly short men bothering them. Let incels spend most of their income and time on sex dolls and you can be a part of a harem. Win win.

2021-01-04T15:02:17+00:00

Not really! Jewelry is awesome! Who doesn’t want to buy themselves some?

Expensive-Guitar3609 · 2021-01-04T15:36:15+00:00

Buying a sex doll is the male equivalent to a woman marrying a homeless and unnemployed broke guy.

Buying a engagement ring for yourself is like just fucking yourself. I mean...

SonicBackScratcher · 2021-01-04T14:03:38+00:00

The female equivalent are the women who go out with fake babies to the store and that sort of thing.

restartthepotatoes · 2021-01-04T15:10:15+00:00

How the hell is a ring the equivalent of a sex doll? They are in no way comparable...like at all.

Iluvalmonds83 · 2021-01-04T15:22:18+00:00

Sounds like More of a comparison with MGTOW

learn2earn89 · 2021-01-04T15:25:37+00:00

Women buy themselves jewelry all the time lol. This is a dumb comparison.

SonicBackScratcher · 2021-01-04T12:52:29+00:00

About that

YouSaidChicken · 2021-01-04T12:46:41+00:00

From a certain meta standpoint. Why would anyone care about either group?

They’re both incels.

Ones just more relationshipcelled

Women don’t care about sex like men do (if at all) and men don’t slobber over relationships like FDS.

Primarily because men aren’t gold diggers who hate sex like it’s a burden.

Either group is never-was types. So let people ostracized by actual human beings have their internet fun.

methamphetamile · 2021-01-04T13:41:07+00:00

No, the equivalent to a male buying sexdolls is a woman buying sexdolls. Male incels are another depraved breed. There’s nothing controversial or wrong about buying jewelry or promising to take care of yourself lmao.

AttachableSheep · 2021-01-04T16:57:42+00:00

I think they're similar, since they both are purchases that make people happy. Incels share their sex doll pictures in their forums and fds women share their ring photos in their subreddit, and people congratulate them. You could go deeper and say both are pathetic and show failure to connect with others, but at the end of the day I'm dumber than most in these things, and I see both as harmless stuff that give happiness.

So for the record, I support both.

Zonkey_Zeedonk · 2021-01-04T17:12:14+00:00

Nah, it’s way stupider.

A doll is just a sex toy, it’s makes masturbation more fun and satisfying for people who are into that experience. Someone buying themselves an engagement ring is spending thousands of dollars to make other people think their married? I don’t even get it? Do they actually do that?

I’m a woman and have never seen a single woman buy herself a ring. That’s really dumb.

Plus if you’re wearing a ring it’s probably harder to date? I don’t get it.

motion_lotion · 2021-01-04T15:01:40+00:00

It's a crude comparison but it works. I read those fds posts and just feel bad for them. I never thought I'd see a world where women are happy buying themselves engagement rings. To be fair, I still don't think I have -- it's all an act.

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jayda92 · 2021-01-04T14:58:11+00:00

No woman will walk around all smiley faced with her vibrator or dildo 🤣

2021-01-04T15:07:13+00:00

I think he gets more out of the sex doll than she does with the ring to be honest

Gonzal01021 · 2021-01-04T17:24:22+00:00

I don’t see no shame on buying a sex doll or a ring Live and let live bro 😎

trele_morele · 2021-01-04T17:50:35+00:00

Why not fake bobs? Better than a ring imo

801735 · 2021-01-04T18:27:29+00:00

No.

Incel buying doll is physical, wank+ or pocketpussy- LOL, which ever you prefer. The easiest form is the good old manual. Easy.

Her buying herself a self-wedding ring is basically admission of defeat, lapdog+, catharem------. The easiest form is being good enough to be taken off the market. Not sure, was supposed to be easy, perhaps it has to do with self-inflicted-delusion.

Reisiluu · 2021-01-04T19:19:02+00:00

I don't know if it's equivalent but it's similar. Coping with sex toys is expected but it's like if a guy bought one and tried to convince other men how much better it is than a sexual relationship and how this year with plastic Pamela is going to be great. Sad and cringy.

DV_throwaway19675 · 2021-01-04T21:28:30+00:00

I don't really get why anyone would spend that much money on a toy (doll/ring/whatever) when they could be investing in assets that will appreciate in value over time.

Or set the money aside and get a pet. That makes a lot more sense.

GeneralBandicoot2646 · 2021-01-04T21:54:57+00:00

it screams red flags to me.

Sid_Insidious · 2021-01-04T23:49:19+00:00

A sex doll is useful for something.

A big ring is just what idiot materialists do in a weak-ass attempt to feign social status.

I like to laugh at the banana-republic nannies with their $2K Lois-Vuitton purses - as they sit and wait for the bus.

longshaftmutant · 2021-01-05T19:52:12+00:00

I don’t think about either groups doing anything

hallucinatronic · 2021-01-06T00:13:58+00:00

All of it's sad tbh. Buying a ring for yourself and making fun of someone that feels the need to do that.

2021-01-06T03:55:57+00:00

One has to do with sex. The other doesn't.

Apples and oranges.

lionhart280 · 2021-01-10T12:11:53+00:00

Hmm.

Both are extremely expensive heavily marketed items that require immense upkeep and instantly devalue to almost no resale value the moment you buy them.

However, sex dolls prices aren't backed by an industry built on top of child slave labor and banana republics.

So, not a perfect comparison.

Both aren't smart purchases though. From what I've heard sex dolls are extremely difficult to upkeep And not worth it all, and take up so much more space than you expected.

And diamonds are just a terrible financial decision all around. Don't buy diamonds. Ever.

LillthOfBabylon · 2021-01-04T13:00:42+00:00

No, buying cats is the equivalent to buying these mythical sex robots and overpriced sex dolls. But atleast pets are alive and enjoyable for other people.

lulll · 2021-01-04T14:02:03+00:00

the really funny thing about that is the women who are congratulating her for buying herself an engagement ring are actually secretly laughing at her behind her back, but they have to put on this big emotional approval show just so they don't get excluded. that is like the worst possible thing to a woman, being excluded

Hoopy223 · 2021-01-04T16:10:13+00:00

So they buy themselves their own wedding rings w/o a man in their lives? Fucking depressing tbh.

GGMcThroway · 2021-01-05T07:03:05+00:00

Nah.

Buying a ring doesn't serve any practical purpose and bragging about it is a performative gesture at best. It's dumb, but doesn't say anything about the person except that they have an unwarranted sense of self-importance.

A sex doll has a very specific purpose and bragging about getting one just reeks of coping over not being able to get the objectively better thing it's meant to replace.

They'll be equivalent when people see sex dolls as just another tool to masturbate with instead of ascribing any other meaning to them.

Paperheartcompany · 2021-01-16T00:30:46+00:00

Don’t look so much into a woman buying a diamond ring for herself.

anakinskynoobi · 2021-01-04T14:38:41+00:00

No, a sex doll is a toy to have horny time, buying yourself an engagement ring is pathetic.

Title	Do you agree with the observation that FDS women buying themselves an engagement ring is the equivalent of an incel buying himself a sex doll?
Author	step_aside_butch_
Upvotes	87
Comments	127
Date	January 4, 2021 12:41 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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