I think people are too in their own heads a lot to connect properly. It’s like you’re viewing the person through your own lens which puts a limit on what you’re able to understand.

I honestly wonder if you’d rather be with someone who is pretty yet dumb to understand you or someone who is average yet shares your world of seeing things.

I see so many posts where men are in a repetitive cycle of fantasizing women and hating them for not fitting into their fantasies. And then they approach women without having resolved their hatred and get rejected.

I’m not into this whole have sex with many women. So I have trouble understanding men who do.