Short version: Men don't understand that making sex and sex appeal their top priority affects what type of women they observe and associate with, typically hot slutty girls with shitty personalities.

Long version:

The biggest cause-and-effect example is "Men don't care about a woman's income or success" and "We care about youth and beauty the most", but for some reason it's gynocenticism's fault that men have to pay alimony (even though prenups are a thing). Then I hear men whine "But women should get their own money and not leech off men" and plenty of women do..... but did you make that a priority? NO.

The other example is men never really paying attention to the types of women they're talking about. For some reason, there's this belief that women go after serial killers, like Charles Manson. Yes, Charles Manson did have a harem of women he fucked..... they also helped him commit murder. Are men so desperate for sex that they're willing to sleep with women that would murder them on a whim?

Why do I bring this up Charles Manson and his cult? Like minded people tend to hang out with each other. I know the drug addicted loser gangster bad boys get alot of sex..... from drug addicted loser women with gangster qualities herself, like picking fights with women over stupid shit.

A popular saying in this subreddit is "Watch what women do, not what they say". However, you're not observing "all women wanting bad boys", you're observing the bitchy slutty crazy chicks that bad boys love to pump and dump because you want those types of women for yourself.

Last, but most importantly, shallowness. Just because a woman's hot, doesn't mean she's a piece of shit. With that in mind, being a shallow man will drive people with depth away from him, leaving only the shallow women and other shallow men. The shallow women will chase hot guys and/or try to trick men out their money by using sex as a weapon. So yes, I can see why AF/BB, 80/20, Money branching, the Wall, and Nice Guys Finish Last became popular theories. However, there's no proof that they're true for the majority of women. It may seem like it because shallow men want to only focus hot and hypersexual women.

So then it makes sense that these attractive hypersexual women want tall attractive rich guys to spoil them and refuse to settle for less. They're the top 20% of attractive women. Why shouldn't they have high standards when they have a wide variety of men to choose from? With that in mind, that has nothing to do with the average woman.