How do you determine what your league is?

Unlikely_Trip_262 · 2021-12-31T18:18:13+00:00

Rate all the girls you fucked and then add their scores up and divide by the number of girls.

Nighthawk_Black_ · 2021-12-31T17:21:43+00:00

My league is whoever I'm attracted to.

ToughAnswers · 2021-12-31T16:59:14+00:00

Women: by what caliber of men commit to them

Men: by what caliber of women fuck them without commitment

Remarkable-Salt1074 · 2021-12-31T17:35:25+00:00

Leagues are simply determined by the quality of women you attract and how often you can attract them. If you’re getting average and attractive options and occasionally cycle to a drought then you’re above average.

If you’re constantly getting a stream of highly attractive women then you’ve hit the lottery genetically at least.

If you’re dry most of the time, then probably average or below in the physical department.

Tbh leagues don’t matter much anyway because they’re only used as a heuristic and nonstatic gauge of the physical attractiveness of partners, not compatibility. Fine if you’re looking for a hookup but not good for anything else.

YtBlue · 2021-12-31T18:19:30+00:00

There isn't really leagues for men. You can be on top of the world one moment. Then get none in another. Just because status is so closely tied to how easy and what a man can pull.

Ohyarlysmiles · 2021-12-31T20:44:58+00:00

I prefer to think of it in terms of a range.

Short-term:

The low end of your range are women who will just hop in your car fresh off meeting you and want to do sex things without much talk. The high end of your range are the prettiest women who are open to dating/seeing you, but who you can fuck things up with fairly easily (less margin for error).

Long-term:

Low end are women you could just ask to commit to you/will commit to you without a return commitment. High end are women who will be in a relationship with you but won't have sex until you make some kind of commitment.

DP8414 · 2022-01-01T09:25:02+00:00

The people who deny leagues exist and unironically think looksmatching isn't real are the people who have a deep, psychological need to believe that biological determinism doesn't exist - that everyone is a "blank slate" who can be molded into any type of person society desires. The way you know who is in your league is to ascertain who is attracted to you and shows interest in you. Whatever those people look like, that's the league you're in.

LackOf_Empathy · 2021-12-31T17:15:33+00:00

Both men and women have an SMV (sexual marketplace value).

A woman's sexual marketplace value peaks at 23 where she is at her most attractive and fertile.

Men's sexual marketplace value peaks in their 30's (assuming he maxed out his potential).

Manjeric0 · 2021-12-31T18:08:26+00:00

Personally "my league" is the type of women I find attractive and actually can spend time with and be myself. I've dated girls that were "out of my league" i.e. too attractive for me and I've dated girls that my mates would look at her and ask me why I was dating her when I could "do so much better".

Nowadays I've learned to steer clear of highly attractive women, especially the ones that like to dress up, use loads of makeup and are generally "high maintenance". "High Maintenance" women are more often then not and despite their degrees, jobs or income, vapid and downright uncultured in some cases, where they'll make a mockery out of themselves when discussing certain matters with "high value men", like economics, geo politics or finance AND ESPECIALLY technology. They look really good, but at the end of the day that's all they are. They've never really had to invest in anything else because their looks has opened all the doors they could ever want in life. That's fine; That's great and that's definitely NOT for me.

I'd rather much date a woman that understands and knows about the things that I like, that prefers to travel light and compact and make the most out of a budget, instead of going to a five star resort and one that doesn't demand to be wined and dined in the most expensive restaurants in town, just so she can put a picture on social media to flex on people she doesn't even know IRL.

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_HEDONISM_BOT · 2021-12-31T19:20:38+00:00

There’s a website called photofeeler. There’s a “dating” category. If you upload your photo there, women will vote on how “attractive” you are, and it then gives you a number rating from 1-10 of how attractive you look in those photos.

It’s free and operates on a karma system ( you’ll have to vote on photos of women in order for your pic to be voted on).

You can read about their methodology on their FAQ page.

TL:DR : they toss out “bad votes” and adjust/weigh scores for voters ratings based on their behaviors (e.g. a woman who gives low scores for all men she sees will have her vote adjusted/weighted accordingly to account for it.) It’s statistically valid how they do it.

I recommend you guys spend time uploading and testing photos to get a general idea on how attractive you are. This will take a while. It’s a long process. I’ve been testing photos for at least a year and know how attractive the men in my preferred age group think I am.

SaBahRub · 2021-12-31T23:56:33+00:00

Who doesn’t reject you

AggroWeasel · 2022-01-01T02:02:02+00:00

This is a great question. Because I have no fucking idea.

My girlfriends - and they are few in number - have all been like hard 7s or better.

But I regularly go months or even years without getting so much as a single date. OLD is a nightmare for me.

So I have no idea what my “equal” even would be.

flapperfemmefatale · 2021-12-31T17:24:38+00:00

I never think in terms of leagues.

unitedmaybe17362 · 2021-12-31T17:26:45+00:00

Why are we making posts based of Karen's vernacular? 🤔

Title	How do you determine what your league is?
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Date	December 31, 2021 4:36 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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