Because I see so many men bringing up female hypergamy, I am interested in what you think about the other way around?

I personally am in such a relationship. And both of us are very happy.

She is smart, funny, super nice and very good looking. She goes to college, plays the guitar, reads a lot of books, etc. She's a real catch.

I on the other hand am average height, fat, have a normal income job and play videogames a lot. I can be funny sometimes and am a genuinely nice person.

But from what I see on here, I shouldn't be able to get in such a position. I'm in no way unique.

So how do you reach when guys get into similar positions?