*I would have used "have" casual sex, but I don't want people to answer on their liking of casual sex, so 'get' seemed more fitting.
Please state your age/sex.
Assume your partner is to be at least modestly attractive **to you** (doesn't have to be conventionally attractive).
And yes, I know a lot of girls will just say "easy", but I don't think all girls perceive it that way, especially with the above caveat.
Ok, enough disclaimers, I'll go first [I'll talk about Tinder, but feel free to offer your perspective about whatever venue(s) you'd like]:
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- For me In my experience if I concentrate my efforts on Tinder, I'd probably be able to have sex within 2-3 weeks, after some boring Tinder conversations and 2-3 dates with the same girl.
So it would require chatting with 10-20 girls, having dates with 1-3 different girls and and I figure at least one of them would lead to sex by the 3rd date.
I could of course get 'lucky' and have sex 1st date, but that's not common in my case (nor is it common with any of my male friends)
This may sound good to some, but it is perceived as not easy for me.
Remember, I'm **not** looking for a relationship, so just wanting to have fun with someone for some time (it's casual, doesn't mean it's ONS) requires a non-trivial effort, and right-swiping to 50% and matching with 4% of them isn't good for your self esteem, even if you know the Tinder-Statistics you're dealing with.
It makes it sound even harder to me when I know some guys can go on Tinder and have sex basically tonight.
I don't mean to make it a woe-me thing, just that I perceive it as non-trivially harder than I would have liked it to be.
Go on then, What's your perspective?
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