Now, instead of training betas to be more alpha like traditional societies these dating scientists argue that you can tame the alpha 2.0 (the magical successful man that is somehow handsome but has the agency of a 14 year old with a boner) to be a beta. This is a fundamental flaw.
Fundamentally if women found simp behavior attractive, there would be no arseholes within 6 months. But shit doesn't work like that. Instinctually women don't want men that are for lack of a better word - useless.
The regulator of a woman's libido is POWER. All that other shit means nothing if it's not a consequence of power or used to exert power on a man's surroundings. And these "experts in men" argue that the issue with men is that they have too much power. LOL...
But I get their frustration. It must seem so unfair to be a strong indapendant woman and still be powerless in your dating life. The unavoidable truth is that men get picked for sex, and women HAVE to be picked for relationships. Fundamentally men have to DECIDE to be with you. Day after day... This choice can be because he wants you, or because he wants A woman i.e. he has choices but choose you, or has no choice other than you.
There is no woman on Earth, that can be continuously desired and wanted by a man with options without being a good girl for her daddy. If you don't put 100% in for your man, and don't feel like your guy choose you over any other slut daily, you won't value his commitment, and you won't feel like you are a bad bitch that can keep her man.
This is the hormonal contract you signed - you don't need a companion, you don't need someone that has your back, and gives you the bat when you have a home intruder. You don't need someone to argue with when you have to make major decisions in lose-lose situations. You might want a partner, given all the BS in our culture, but you do not NEED him.
You need someone that crushes it, that you can lay your head on and sleep, knowing he has can handle shit. However that is scary. You do not have power with a man you want, and if you have power over him, that fact makes you now want him. If your esteem is derived from male power ques, this is a harder pill to swallow than what the red pill is for nice blue pillers. And a pill that makes all the BS in FDS a fantasy.