Throughout my life, 33% of my friends have been male. Even now in my mid-20s, I have guy friends that I talk to on a bi-daily (every other day) basis, we hang out whenever we can, I know alot about their lives, and they know alot about my life. This was accomplished WITHOUT SEX.

Before someone claims “You’re friendzoning them.” one has a girlfriend, another friendzoned me, and a third one has different politicial opinions from me so it wouldnt work out anyways.

Why am I bringing this up? Im getting tired of being told that “I dont understand guys’ need for sex” None of my friends got the memo that they needed their dicks inside someone to care about that person.

Of course they want sex. Never said that was the problem. Thing is: Their relationships weren’t/aren’t dependent on sex.

So Im not seeing what’s the big deal about wanting a boyfriend who‘s not thinking with his boner 24/7.