A lot of men complain about how terribly alone they are, we all know this is a problem. The incel rhetoric seems to focus a lot on a desire for sex, and yet every post and complain from an incel describing what they really want, always depicts a relationship. These men want qualities such as a woman who hasn't slept with a lot of men, is sympathetic to him and his lifestyle, or modest and monogamous, committed to him and only him. None of this sounds remotely like the desires of someone who wants to simply use a woman for sex. And yet men insist this is what they want and cry about how lonely they are.

I honestly think society has created the belief that in order for a man to be cool and manly he needs a lot of casual hookups to prove his worth, and so men feel they have to fuck women left and right, but in reality, just like us, you desire romance, a connection, and love. If you stopped teaching other men about the value of fucking around, encouraged them to follow their heart and not sleep with women just for the pride, a lot less guys would be deeply struggling to find romance because they couldnt stop using women and turning off romantics.