Like most things in life, it's a give and a take. However, in this case, the potential risk is much worse with marrying up a used up girl for what you gain.
So there's a couple of things to examine, you claim that you're likely to end up in a sexless relationship if you don't go with a woman who was previously promiscuous?
This is effectively wrong, because women practice a AF/BB mating strategy. In fact, we can see in marriages where a woman was promiscuous prior to the marriage, she experiences LOWER satisfaction in it.
We see it countless times where women want to sleep and fuck around with the alphas in their prime and marry the stable beta as they're dropping off.
If we accept the premise that most men are sex-limited betas (which I think the evidence is quite astoundingly in favor of, at least in terms of long-term iterations), then we can assume that it's probably a safer bet that a man marries a non-promiscuous woman, ideally a virgin. Even if the beta ends up in a sexless marriage, it's better than ending up in a sexless marriage where you are constantly getting cucked due to the lack of satisfaction and lack of overall attraction the wife had to the husband from the initialization period.
There's other things to examine too -- is the couple having limited sex due to lacking mutual interest or are they trying to cultivate a sense of emotional intimacy?
Another perspective to look at is if you're an alpha male:
1) You can convincingly train your virgin wife to be your personalized slut
2) You can convince your wife to be happy and loyal, while you conquer other women for your harem ("Women Love Getting Cucked — It Assures Them They Have Found An Alpha Male Who Will Pursue The Formation of Harems. Women Would Rather Be A Bottom Bitch Concubine of an Alpha than a First Wife of a Beta"). She'll probably become more attracted to you through the process.
3) You simply don't get married and continue getting different girls and discard ones that don't provide for you what you want
