If you're attractive can you really just stand there, not try that hard, and women will like you?

OXOzymandias · 2020-10-18T12:18:01+00:00

There’s guys more attractive than me so maybe it’s different for them, but in my case, it’s more “if you make a move, I will let you” than “I will make a move on you.” I still got none when I was passive in my younger years

OXOzymandias · 2020-10-18T12:15:01+00:00

yes, i saw happen quite a lot of time, i think the blackpil is right to some extend, if you able to be super hot, you will live women experience of dating lol....a lot of options throwing themself at you basically

Empyrean_MX_Prime · 2020-10-18T12:33:12+00:00

If you're a genuinely hot guy and not just delusional then yes. Of course this only works on women who aren't shy - those ones will be too intimidated to approach.

TheJim66 · 2020-10-18T12:08:39+00:00

Yes. If you are at the very top of any of the attractive factors (looks, status, game) you can be mediocre/crappy in the other two and still do fine

skullirang · 2020-10-18T12:40:52+00:00

Yes, but you will get shitty results. If you are a 10 you'll only get 7s approaching you most of the time. Anyone who doesn't step outside their comfort zone will get less than they could get with proper action.

bayfarm · 2020-10-18T14:21:36+00:00

It’s true, if you’ve ever interacted with people or been outside you can see it pretty easily. This whole “oh she was shy” shit is BS, because if you were hot you’d have women coming up to you and trying to get your attention. I’ve seen it tons of time in college and then in my 20s in any given bar or party.

Now, it’s important to understand that even attractive men can fuck it up with their personality. However every point on the looks scale you go up, the more chances people will give you so if you screw up in something you say they’ll let it go. Personality can turn an 8 into a 4, but it’s definitely not like that the other way around

Kaisha001 · 2020-10-18T14:53:18+00:00

Yes, I had no game, I was (still am) a complete geek. I never bothered to ask women out (at least 95% of the time), I was generally just standing around and they'd approach/hit on me.

reluctantly_red · 2020-10-18T14:13:45+00:00

Yes! I suck at small talk and I'm not a big fan of rejection so I usually let women make the first move. It's usually not a full-fledged approach -- women don't generally do that -- its usually strong indications of interest. I met my first wife at a beach party when we were 18. I was standing by the bonfire. She came up and stood next to me. She looked interested so I put my arm around her -- she reciprocated -- we walked down the beach and had sex (I didn't even know her name yet).

acron5n5 · 2020-10-18T12:09:14+00:00

Yes.

skystar86 · 2020-10-18T12:13:37+00:00

Play hard to get and misunderstood. Look into the distance. Be mysterious.....Now you got it....

Tyler_Gatsby · 2020-10-18T12:31:11+00:00

Yes, assuming they see other women interested in you first. If you have a gf, the threshold attractiveness for this to happen goes down.

reluctantly_red · 2020-10-18T13:46:02+00:00

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Saint_Coomercel · 2020-10-18T15:33:18+00:00

Women will simp for you if you are attractive. Look at all the actors, boybands and male models.

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DangZagnut · 2020-10-18T14:20:05+00:00

Yep. Just the nature of women. And I’m not attractive, but women would approach me and show interest based on nothing.

michael1962-01 · 2020-10-18T15:18:48+00:00

Yes. They approach too.

Jakes1967 · 2020-10-18T20:10:02+00:00

One of my colleagues is 6'4" tall and looks like Joe millionaire - ruggedly handsome.

He used to visit various sites and on his return, there'd be a flurry of calls into the office, from women at the various sites, all enquiring about his dating status.

When he did demonstrations, the audience was large and full of single women. Oddly, his sales were extremely high with single women...

LooseIndication · 2020-10-18T20:57:07+00:00

No. At best, women will stand around for no reason, expecting to be opened.

Some rare cases, will ask you something casually. Once.

All women do, is to give you a chance to seduce them, but none will throw herself at your arms, or will start gaming you. Women still need to be seduced.

trail22 · 2020-10-19T04:33:58+00:00

There was this one porn actor James Dean. The guy accused of raping. He did an interview where all he did to get girls was look at them and look down in hopes they would come over and talk to him.

I used to go to a meetup where we ran sprints. I approached women all the time and got nowhere. While the women I approached would go out of their way to approach guys there and one time use me to approach my better looking friends.

Crime_Dawg · 2020-10-20T19:53:59+00:00

Sorta, but you still have to know how to socialize and escalate. The most you'll likely get is the occasional girl approaching you, but far more common is making eye contact and they give you the "look" to go talk to them. As long as you can hold a conversation at that point and are charming, you're usually in.

2020-10-18T12:33:52+00:00

himbos are well-liked for a reason

Title	If you're attractive can you really just stand there, not try that hard, and women will like you?
Author	bayfarm
Upvotes	17
Comments	43
Date	October 18, 2020 12:01 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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