In nearly all sexual relationships and encounters, men's role is active; women's role is reactive.

From approaching, to asking people out, to initiating and performing sex, to proposing marriage, men play the active role whereas women have a reactive role.

Far too often, I see women trying to rationalize their effort and input into situations as being more than it actually is. No man would agree with a woman that women put in as much or more effort into all sex-related interactions than men do, because we all know from experience that this claim is BS.

Women also try to exclaim that they put in effort during sex, but I think this is just women feeling like the effort that they do put in is equivalent in some way because it feels like effort to them, whereas on an objective scale compared to their male counterparts, it isn't really comparable.

For example, when talking about "sexual performance," men's performance is akin to athletic performance, while women's performance is akin to a stage/acting performance. I don't think anyone needs to be a kinetic physicist to know which one requires more energy or effort to do.

"but this one time, I........"

"but my friend did....."

"b-but...... but........"

No buts. It's hard to believe that this is even a discussion topic up for debate, but leave it to people who try to rationalize and inflate the importance and involvement of their own effort so they don't have to feel any guilt or appear lazy, I guess.

That's it. In my opinion, this isn't really debatable, yet is still debated, so let's put it to rest.