I've seen a few comments recently from women on here saying that "men in the real world don't think like that" or "men in the real world don't care about X/do care about Y" (I saw that comment specifically in relation to a woman's career and education level). I've also seen a few comments about men in the real world not going for younger women and preferring women around their own age (or maybe they are just forced to go for women their own age?).

So in your experience, what are some things that are different about men in the real world compared to men on the red pill, purple pill debate and the manosphere in general?

Also if there are any similarities, what are they?