So for a while now we've been seeing a lot of discussion about what women like and don't like and what qualities women screen for and how a lot of women like whatever conventionally attractive or masculine trait is out there and I'm just kinda gonna address the elephant in the room and say most of the women making these posts aren't exactly the kind of woman who's an actual match for these guys. As much as a lot of people hate using OLD statistics this chart is a nice rule of thumb. If you're a woman who men rate average or above, and you want a man you perceive as average or above you're one of like 60% of women going after about 19% of men. Odds are you're gonna be one of the two thirds plus of women who don't get that guy.

I'm really, really sick of this entire thing being framed as a "women like X and send subtle indicators of interest to men with X" discussion like it's men's job to just go out and get X and all the woman has to do is sit back and enjoy it. Because a lot of the women here, especially the ones under 30 actually in the market, are very obviously currently single and alone because the dudes who actually have X can do way better than them and they're basically just here to project those insecurities on the men who also don't have a lot of options.

The fact is if you're sitting at home bitching that none of your matches are reading your bio or that the guy you want is only going after the Hawt Stacy down the street you need to forget all that shit your orbiter and your girlfriends told you and look at that chart and realize your match is probably a 3/10 dude. Because if that ugly dude is dying along odds are so are you and all the girl game in the world isn't gonna get around some basic math.