Was thinking about the following interaction in the recent "Why won't you go gay for pay?" OP.
This is a silly attempt at a gotcha.
Second of all, your suggestion involves gay stuff. When women do it, it does not involve gay stuff. It's a false equivalence. (here)
My reply:
This is where I disagree.
I don’t think men can fathom how gross and like a freshlight women feel being penetrated and overpowered by men they aren’t attracted to or find gross — whether it’s her husband she convenience married or a random John or annoying sugar daddy.
The same way you think women can’t fathom a man doing “gay stuff.”
For women it makes us feel gross and like a cum receptacle and just ugh I can’t even describe it.
For men it [gayfor pay stuff] makes y’all feel emasculated and triggers some existential crisis.
Either way, I think it isn’t a “false equivalence” because in both cases it makes the person feel gross and experience something the other gender can’t quite relate to. (here)
FKA twigs has a song and video about the female experience called "I'm your doll," where she pretty plainly visualizes how deflating and demoralizing it is.
This is more a thought exercise.
I don't think straight men are going to be satisfied fulfilling their desires by going to Grindr for quick and easy sex.
That said, many straight women aren't satisfied, hell, some are damn repulsed by their male mates. So, for this reason, those straight women aren't all that sympathetic to the "woe is me" from the male contingent. Women deal with it in their own way.
If getting one's peen wet is the goal, there are plenty of thirsty options available to thirsty men. This obviously isn't a consideration for men truly seeking female romantic companionship, but for the "I just went to fuck" crowd, this is how a lot of women feel about it.
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