This is something i've noticed today while chatting up with friends both men and women, and this came to a quite obvious but curious observation.

Like 90% of the people struggling today are the high libido ones, and being a good looking, successful men or women doesn't correlate at all with ones libido.

I saw both complains in the topic, mostly girls angry that said HVM in the scene isn't making moves/too vanilla/doesn't want anything even when offered directly, and LVM that have a high libido having a miserable time dealing with it because he can't get laid at all, with most just being serially monogamous with girls of various calibers, the breakups ensue because they obviously want to get rid of the girl after they had what they want eventually.

I honestly just wanted to talk about this, it stuck with me today and i want to see what others think in a less socially correct/open space.