It seems like a lot of people view sex as something valuable that women give to men, which men then have to make up for in other ways.

December 18, 2020
219 upvotes

I think male sexuality is generally seen as being worth less than female sexuality. To the point that when a man and woman have sex, it is seen kind of like a gift, like the woman has given something to the man. We don't view the exchange itself as mutual. And we generally expect that deficit to be made up somewhere else. A man has to prove his worth in other ways besides his sexuality. Or he at least has to "buy" his way into it through dates and gifts and things like that.

I think this underlies quite a bit of the behavior around sex and dating and can explain quite a few things.

I guess a couple questions:

  • Do you agree? Do you think there's more to it?
  • Do you think this is biology, sociology, or a bit of both?
  • Do you think people are hesitant to talk about this? It seems kind of like the "elephant in the room" to me.
  • How are gay / lesbian / queer relationships affected by this?
  • For red pillers: if a man is attractive enough, does this flip around? Is this even a part of the red pill? Or is this basically what the green pill is?

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Title It seems like a lot of people view sex as something valuable that women give to men, which men then have to make up for in other ways.
Author Oncefa2
Upvotes 219
Comments 472
Date December 18, 2020 3:43 PM UTC (11 months ago)
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