Ladies and Gentlemen,
let's face the truth, you can argue that it always has been like this but it was never as apparent as it is nowadays. Love is dead and Hollywood killed it. Since Hollywood, we were exposed to seeing beautiful men and women on screen, photoshopped, dressed in incredibly beautiful outfits and doing things that our human nature is very weak to.
We began watching these shows, these TV movies, later on, despite the attempts to keep it in the shadow, we got exposed to porn in one way or the other. Some of us admired the cataloge models, some of us bought gaming magazines or magazines even more geared towards pleasing our never ending sexual lust and in todays age porn is as easily accessable as never before. As a side note, it was the easiest accessible in the 2010s, since the rise and popularization of streaming sites such as OnlyFans it became a bit more difficult to find the really good content.
Back in the day and in analogous to today, us men were exposed to TV channels streaming stripping women late at night ontop of TV shows specifically made for the male gaze such as Two and a half men, How I met your mother, American Pie, etc., the women were exposed to overly romanticized TV shows and movies raising the bar further and further for women and men until it became unreachable to most of us men and also women.
Thanks to the male nature women don't struggle as much in finding a sexual partner as men do, but women struggle with keeping such a partner, because of our oversexualied society men have also higher sexual expectations and if they are not met men are willing to seek this satisfaction elsewhere. The satisfaction is always at all times just one click away. One click and he is gazing at, probably photoshopped, beauties which his wife could never achieved. One click away, and the woman is gazing at men who are way richer fitter and more popular than her stupid, dumb and lazy husband.
We always had these in our nature. Thanks to todays technology it became easy to indulge in our lust, to gaze upon things we crave and compare it to what we were given, achieved and dealt with. We compare our gaze to our miserable hand with have been dealt.
Friends, love was always a scam. The family structure worked for so long because our gaze was limited, indulging and gooning in our lust was not just one click way. This is not the fault of technology. This is the fault of government. This is the fault of a too liberal policy when it comes to protecting our human nature.
What do you think about the people who post their food on social media? What do you think? When someone who never had such a meal, who never could even dream of having such a meal sees that someone else is indulging in what he even didn't know that he craves... isn't it only fair that this person becomes frustrated and angry? In my opinion, rightfully so. Rightfully so.
This is sadly the state we are in and as I see it no side, despite very very few individual beings are keen on tackling and fixing this problem. Both women and men have become slaves of their lusts.
In fact, if we think about it this way we can figure out that love is not what we were taught. It is not what we used to believe in. No. Love, love is the bonding, it is the strength that two people are willing to overcome any hardshipt thrown their way. Love, love is a band that keeps two people of opposite genders together, they build a strong team, a family. Love can be beautiful thing, but not if we reduce it to simply our lusts. Love means to overcome difficult times together, one such difficult time is that we as humans are weak to our sexual nature, we crave sex, we crave intimacy. Love means to take care of your partners weakness. To care of him or her needs and make her strong.
Yes, we fucked ourselves. We fucked ourselves and our families. It is no wonder that the world is in shambles. We are fastly approaching the end times. If we keep on going, I am afraid our civilization will be wiped out and replaced with a way more sane civilization.
My advice for the lonely single men and women. If you need to, do it. Masturbate, watch porn, make seek an online partner or someone in real life but always keep in mind that your just pleasuring the lust in you. This is not love. It is not fullfillling. You will always doubting yourself. You will always be made to question yourself "Am. I. Not. Attractive. To. My. Partner?". Always.
My advice, we need to force ourselves to feeding our lusts. We need to stop indulging in our gazes. We need to finally lower our gazes as a collective. I will do the first step. It is done.
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