It’s important.

Focusing only on physical looks is how you end up perennially sexless.

Sure don’t look like an ogre. Strive to at least get to 5/6+. More if you can. But once you do that you’ll be more successful focusing on “game” and extraverted sociable comfort.

This thread touches on it.


When discussing female arousal, when I and most women reference “charisma” or “charm” or “presence” or “sociability” or even “personality,” we mean “game” or “frame.”