Let's just use these bs terms for the sake of the argument

There are women that you see as a man and you just want to bang on the spot. Usually big tits, big ass, full lips.

Then there are regular looking women. Maybe they're cute but they're simple and aren't obsessed with fashion. Their personality makes them even more attractive. Maybe she's in a helping profession. We, men, often call those women "wifey material".

Just because they aren't "objectively" as hot as the first categoty, that doesn't mean we're not attracted to them. Sometimes we don't even bang the first one. Sometimes it's just more fun to fantasize about it.

The first category of women is rather for ons, short term stuff. The latter for ltrs.The winners aren't the ones who get chosen for ons. The winners are the ones who are chosen for ltr or marriage.

When I was a 20 year old man,I would have happily banged a hot woman with nothing else going on for herself if little effort were required. But as a 30 year old man I'm not looking to wife up a woman who hasn't her shit together or isn't willing to do so.

How does trp market this as some secret, unknown beacon of truth ? Like no shit, people like stability. You're choosing a life partner, the mother/father of your child. not some hot piece of ass that's gonna lose their looks after a couple of years anyways.