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Anytime a man dares to make any sort of statement about women’s collective behavior or patterns they observe firsthand, they are immediately slapped with the classic “women are not a monolith” and are emphatic about how unique and individualistic they are in their thought processes and personal tastes and opinions.

Any man who has spent even a short time in the dating world knows this couldn’t be further from the truth. Women invariably base their opinions of men on how others perceive him, particularly other women.

Some examples that serve as clear evidence of this are:

  • women will rebuff the advances of even men they are genuinely attracted to when it is a cold approach, but if the same or an even less attractive man was introduced to them through a “mutual” acquaintance (not friends) they immediately trust them and will completely let their guard down. If it’s a friend of a friend I understand, but often the commonality of simply being at the same party is enough for a woman to trust a guy. Yet no matter how smooth, charming and comforting a guy is it usually goes nowhere without someone’s preapproval.

  • women consistently demonstrate the powerful attraction they have to men who are taken. Preselection by other women is one of if not THE most powerful aphrodisiacs. Seeing that another women desires a man is simply intoxicating to them. On top of the obvious moral issues here, this again demonstrates how much women truly depend on the opinions and validation of other women before feeling attracted to men while simultaneously maintaining how independent they are in their taste and judgements

  • as mentioned in my previous thread, women are heavily influenced by their circle of friends. If one of them disapproves of him it’s almost always game over. Despite what the blue pillers in here will have you believe, women most certainly will NOT go out of their way to make it happen regardless of how “interested” they are. As they love to say, “dick is abundant and of low value,” and looks alone are not enough to seal the deal (their exact words over and over,) an attractive guy is not enough to break her away from the herd. Similarly, a girl can be all about a dude and the second he becomes socially maligned or even simply mocked or talked about in a slightly negative light they will completely lose interest.

  • Lastly, and possibly most asonishingly, the way women respond in unison to every new “heartthrob” or sex symbol that comes along is perhaps the epitome of this phenomenon, particularly when the guy is objectively average or even unattractive. Robert Pattinson, Channing Tatum, Taylor Lautner, I even heard girls saying how hot POST MALONE was. Clearly again this has absolutely zero to do with physical appearance and everything to do with girls following the herd mentality that drives so much of their behavior.