In my conversations with TRPers , it seems they believe that women care about what her friends and family think and men don't.

In my experience, this is opposite.

However I could be wrong, and perhaps all my life I've just hung with vain men.

But starting from Kindergarten, boys seemed to only want to date the popular girl.

Often times it didn't matter if there were other women who were more beautiful, they wanted to date the girl that everyone else had validated as both cool and pretty.

This extends to now.

I'm in my 20s.

And I'm seeing the same dynamics.

FOX's Scream Queens is kitschy satire, but touches on this. The main male character "Chad" (lol!) only dates women who are hot and popular and dating unpopular women just isn't what Chad "Bradwell" (haha!) does. But he fucks them all.

TRP claims that men don't care about social validation and that it's a female trait, then why is TRP built on dating 10/10s when it's likely your dick gets hard for a 6 or 7 too?

It's merely social proof.

Men want to be validated by other people.

If he walks into a room with a model, every guy in there will think "he's that ninja."

And despite what I've heard from TRPers about how "real men don't care about social validation," TRP is built on being socially validated.

If women date rich and powerful men, to elevate her own status, Men date 10/10 dimes to elevate his.

I actually don't mind the desire.

I just want TRPers to stop calling it "a female trait" because all my life I've noticed that specific need for peer validation more from men.