For the women that have a set rule that they’re going to wait, I think a lot of the frustration that men have during dating with being stringed along (and paying for) for multiple dates or even months with a girl they’re interested in, is that the same girl has had one night stands and hook ups before but is holding out with him.

They don’t want to be seen as the guy who had to “invest” more into the girl to get the same outcome. In any situation (not just saying!), that person looks like the sucker. The lack of consistency and being seen as just “relationship material” can be demoralizing

Lmk what y’all think