If only ugly men are considered creepy, how can anonymous online posts also be creepy? So automatically, being called creepy is more due to behavior rather than a lack of physical attraction.
The vast majority of men are NOT the Hunchback of Notre Dame, that includes ugly guys. Ugly guys are typically 4s, 5s, and 6s, who don't take care of themselves. Think of the Neckbeards. Neckbeards smell rancid, they wear crappy clothes, they dress like children, and they keep weird unkempt facial hair.
Handsome men typically work out, have good taste in fashion, and know how to talk to women.
I guess a good example of looking good through effort is Adam Driver. An example of looking bad because of lack of effort are most neckbeards, but Elliot Rodger for a infamous example. Elliot wasn't ugly, so clearly it wasn't looks making him be called creepy.
Adam Driver before and after.
Since we, as a sub, love to talk over each other by using vague terminology, here's examples of what I'm talking about in terms of Neckbeards choosing to look gross and people choosing to be creepy.
I goggled "Neckbeard Memes" and this is common looks I've found:
https://media.gq.com/photos/55828bcf1177d66d68d52ae8/master/w_1600%2Cc_limit/blogs-the-feed-jonah-hill-neckbeards-on-reddit.jpg
https://i.pinimg.com/600x315/ec/8b/4e/ec8b4e198eab9b50c500d3927456e2f2.jpg
https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/001/058/778/3bf.jpg
https://images7.memedroid.com/images/UPLOADED105/5628359390d22.jpeg
https://i.imgflip.com/4iasn4.png?a450720
https://i.imgur.com/z5CNNhN.jpg
Creepy posts that have nothing to do with looks:
https://me.me/i/neckbeard-on-the-hunt-baec46e8b8b24023bd9e36fbe9ff5d63
https://i.pinimg.com/564x/c5/b9/3a/c5b93ae733fcdf27c476989d351df575.jpg
https://i.redd.it/atkt7nbwwl341.jpg
https://i.chzbgr.com/full/9185026560/hFF28048D/by-now-s-murder-society-murdered-my-kids-all-so-women-can-feel-like-they-are-equal-maleforeveralone
https://i.chzbgr.com/full/9185024256/hAFECFC38/mater-womans-logic-like-guy-do-nothing-about-and-expect-him-magically-know-and-make-first-move
A good example of something that's fine in one setting (an Anime convention) but gross in other settings (A school).
Knowing what to say and when to say it is also helps men avoid being creepy.
Also, women can definitely be creepy.
For example, free bleeding is creepy and gross. Also, r/Nicegirls is filled with texts and memes of crazy women thinking their crazy behavior makes cute. However, I think the problem is projection. A lot of guys are with certain women's behavior as long as she's hot, so they think all women think the same thing when it comes to men.
"But there's women who think men are creepy just because they're ugly."And there's men who think women are feminazis solely because they criticize him. That doesn't mean RadFems aren't a legit problem just because a couple of men misuse the word to fit their agenda.
((Had to repost because there was a typo in the first one.))
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