So i talked to my girlfriend this day on how we met, the first time we had sex and so on. She did not want to have sex on our first date, which i am completely fine with. However, she had shaved anyway. So why would she shave if she didnt want to have sex? She said if i wasnt boyfriend material she would maybe have had sex with me. She still found me attractive and sweet.

But what is the logic behind "rewarding" someone who isnt a good enough man to become your boyfriend, but "punishing" me in that situation. I would get it if she would have turned down a guy like me on the first date, whether i was boyfriend material or not