I can't believe that this is such a difficult thing to understand. No one OWES you sex. I'm sorry that women don't want to have sex you (all of the women you've approached for sex, anyways) but that doesn't mean women are at fault. Sex isn't a right, you don't "deserve" sex. For most women, sex is physically painful if you're not attracted to the guy. We have to be attracted to the guy (most of us) to be turned on, or it HURTS. Having sex with someone you don't want to is uncomfortable, often times painful, and generally not a fun experience. So why do some men expect us to have sex with them when we don't want to? Why would a woman have sex with someone she doesn't want to out of pity, when the sex will be uncomfortable and painful? Most women are more emotionally invested during sex and intimacy as well (MOST not all don't twist my words goddamnit.) Why do some men act entitled to sex from whoever they want, and get angry at the woman when they don't reciprocate? Attractions can't be controlled. I don't understand why women are villainized so much here, I really don't.