So, i myself have very limited sexual experience, and no relationship experience. I am 30+, and i notice a lot of women my own age want to settle down and raise a family. Most of the women i talk with are young, so they are more superficial, care about partying and one night stands etc. Total difference experience of life then i had. So i lack that experience. But once they reach 30, especially if they have children. Suddenly they want someone who is nice and caring, who helps pay the bills and raise the kids.

My school of thought is that they were the price when they were young, so in terms of relationships, now i am the price. So now i'm the one asking what they bring to the table. But society is shaming men for using the same tactics against women, that women use against men. So you are not allowed to use hypergamy against women. It's only acceptable when a woman uses it against men.

So how come hypergamy is not tolerate when a man uses it? And why would a man who was left out of the "party phase", not be considered the prize when it comes to relationships? What women want is that they win, regardless of what circumstances. They want to win when they are young, and when they are old. And the men that she used to treat like trash and look at inferior, they should be gratefull that she allows them to date them. And society actually accepts and supports such behaviour against men.