I'm looking around this sub these days and it's Omega this, Omega that.
For what it's worth, here's my two cents: if you're an omega, there's a lot of people out there that will tell you you need to settle for average, that you shouldn't aim to be an alpha male and should be happy if you've improved yourself enough to be a productive beta in society. Ignore them. You have distinct advantages over the rest of the population: your Time, and your Desire.
Time - Time is the most precious resource of all - one of the only things money cannot buy is lost time, you will start to realize that once you take control of the time in your day, progress will be exponential, not linear.
Desire - You will always have a burning desire deep within you to compensate for past scarcity, which is a good thing. Keep it and cultivate it to achieve success in business and relationships that a natural alpha would never achieve because he would never feel a strong enough need to. Look at all the billionaires in the world, not a single Chad to be found, and not just because of their age. Plenty of Chad's become millionaires or find the woman of their dreams and "settle down". But this won't be your fate.
That being said, there are significant barriers to your success that will hold you back if you do not break them. These include self awareness most of all, followed by social anxiety, social awkwardness, depression, and extremely poor hygiene/weight problems
Self Awareness - I see this all the time. People who refuse to accept criticism and view it as a direct attack on their character. You could have 10 people walk up to them and tell them to their face that they are socially awkward and they still refuse to accept this, blaming the world for their problems.
Social Anxiety/Social Awkwardness - I have yet to see someone with SEVERE anxiety or awkwardness succeed with women. I mean, once or twice, I've seen someone with anxiety overcome it through alcohol or willpower but super awkward people never succeed.
Depression - Hate to break it to you but if you feel like shit every day, getting laid won't solve your problems. Even if you have to spend 5 years to fix your problem, it's worth it to be happy
Poor hygiene/Extremely overweight - These things can both be fixed given enough time, effort, and self awareness
In your darkest hour, remember that it is only in hardship that true greatness is forged. As cliche as it sounds, you really have to believe that man is both the sculptor and the marble and that he must suffer to remake himself. Remember that the harshest conditions on the planet tend to produce the strongest results: Siberian tigers are the biggest and strongest of the cats, Polar bears are the largest and most powerful of the bears.
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