Inb4: Looks matter to women. You have to pass a looks threshold, whatever that threshold is to her. But to women looks are sort of a clinical objective reality, it's not perceived by her in the same way it seems looks are for men. That said, sure, the cuter someone is, it's likely easier to turn her on, but guess what, they still have to turn her on.

The focus of my OP is BEHAVIOR.

Black Pillers tend to fecklessly lean into "personality doesn't matter, looks matter."

And already it's clear they're behind the 8-ball.

It's not static "personality" that is sexually arousing to a woman, it's how he interacts and moves in the world that is.

When women and others say "personality is important" to arousing women they are talking about the active display of the sexy aspects of that personality. Not his MBTI score. Not that his male peers allege he's a cool guy.

Black people call this "game." TRP was inspired by that and also called it "game" and further distilled it into "frame," which they did the solid of methodologically detailing.

And guess what? It all matters when it comes to titillating a non-spontaneous non-obligatory slower-to-arousal typical female libido.

Furthermore, a man's behavior, and for that matter, his personality, affects his mutable "looks" characteristics.

  • Fitness
  • Hairstyle
  • Facial hair style
  • Styling
  • Grooming
  • Hygiene
  • Diet
  • Minding one's medical and mental health
  • Etc.

All of the above are things someone does or neglects that optimize or degrade their immutable "looks."

TLDR: "behavior" clearly matters