So few the last few months, I discovered that for places like Tinder and similar dating apps about 80-90% of the userbase is male
Now I know 2020 may have changed this drastically.
But my questions are... why?
For men who are online dating, what was the draw for you hopping on and how did you first go about it as opposed to other methods? What’s your story?
And 80-90% male user figure means that for every 20 women (not all of them hetero btw), there are 80 guys. It’s extremely unbalanced.
But where are all the women not on those platforms?
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