Q4MEN: In what ways does a woman make you feel incredibly masculine?

LowCreddit · 2018-06-29T20:52:12+00:00

I'll give a personal story. I was younger and we were at a Walmart to get her tires done. As we were sitting in the lounge area, the mechanic came out and said they couldn't get a wheel off because they are only allowed to use the pneumatic wrenches. I said I could fix that easy. I pulled out the tire iron for her car and pulled the wheel off for them. They did the rest and she just about humped my legs back to her apartment and we had awesome tearing off clothes going through the door sex.

I asked her afterwards what got her motor started and she said watching me go out there and take charge when the other men failed just lit a fire inside her. I told her anybody including the mechanics could have done what I just did. It didn't matter to her. I knew it was stupid, but it made me feel super manly too when she put it that way. The adoration of a woman is all you need to feel manly.

Tedesche · 2018-06-29T21:06:16+00:00

Cuddling. Women tend to cuddle by nestling into you or being the little spoon. Always made me feel like I’m the strong protector.

Mr_Smoogs · 2018-06-29T20:07:12+00:00

When she tells me how safe she feels with me and how fun I am to be around.

forestpunk · 2018-06-29T21:31:07+00:00

Being solid and unwavering as she changes her mind and opinion about everything under the sun in less than a minute.

Helping us to have great experiences and an interesting, inspiring life. It's not a guy's job, per se, to just be a wallet, but goddam i love taking my lady out, eating nice food, doing things that she likes to do. Have been a little poor for some years but things are getting better. Got to take us on a couple vacations already this year, and just seeing her relaxing and enjoying herself in these beautiful places... i could've died for happiness and contentment.

Also, to echo what some others have said, but feeling like a protector. I strive to be non-violent in life, but i'll kill a motherfucker that fucks with my loved ones. After words have failed, of course!

Finally, appreciation of my style. My fashion sense runs all over the place, but I wear plenty of masculine suits and streetwear. She loves it when i do that.

blackedoutfast · 2018-06-29T22:58:52+00:00

i remember one girl would always do this thing when if she had a little too much too drink and got tipsy or said something dumb and realized it was dumb and got embarrassed she would hug me and press her whole face into my chest. like something you would see a little kid would do when they get embarrassed or overwhelmed. it was super adorable and automatically made me feel very paternal and protective whenever she did it.

whitetrashcarl · 2018-06-29T20:16:01+00:00

Another one is when she gets all wiggly around me, like she’s so excited to see me that she can’t stand still

whitetrashcarl · 2018-06-29T20:01:41+00:00

When she gives detailed speeches about how awesome I am

Few things feed my ego more than that

Looksmaxxing · 2018-06-29T22:07:39+00:00

There was this one girl who made me feel incredibly masculine in her presence.

Here's a couple things that she did:

When she was around me, she would make herself smaller, idk how to describe it. It felt very submissive, and when she did it to me, she made me feel quite masculine.
When talking with me, she would often look at the ground and not at me, yet she would smile when talking to me. This was very submissive and just made me feel super masculine.
She turned red when talking to me or when around me. Any thing that a woman does that makes me feel attractive will make me feel very masculine.

Of course it helped that she was shorter than me and looked cute.

Ercole_ · 2018-06-29T20:43:13+00:00

When she upvotes my comment.

goodjaub · 2018-06-29T20:02:42+00:00

Her throwing her hands around my neck when she sees me. Her hand clasped in mine with the dominant position. Whenever a woman behaves stupidly or clumsily.

[deleted] · 2018-06-29T21:09:54+00:00

I like it when they squeal and whimper because my penis is inside them.

[deleted] · 2018-06-29T20:52:33+00:00

Feel masculine? Rarely, I do not care much what others think. Maybe when she is cuddling with me and she stay inside my arms like it is the best place in the world.

NiceGuyNumber4 · 2018-06-29T21:25:12+00:00

Intimacy. Kissing, cuddling, sex, hugs, etc.

Outside of that, being acknowledged for doing work, even if it's something easy or expected of me, and especially if it's something that she cannot or will not do herself.

It's not difficult for me to lift "heavy" things for her, for example, but that's a great time for a thank you and a compliment.

Hoogstens · 2018-06-29T22:49:14+00:00

i've only had relationships based on women liking my intelligence and career achievements (their words) but in all honestly they're the same reason all my relationships have failed. It was a mix of admiration and envy, especially the type of girls I dated were competitive and were always trying to get into an intellectual knife fight. I wish I went for more bimbos in my early twenties tbh.

short answer: complimenting my intelligence/prospects

[deleted] · 2018-06-30T12:37:48+00:00

In what ways does a woman make you feel incredibly masculine?

When she looks up at me with bambi eyes.

When she gets on her toes to kiss me.

When she tells me I need to sleep closer to the door than she does.

When she tells me she feels safe around me.

When she rests her head on my chest and tells me my heartbeat is loud.

When she comments on my muscles/asks me to flex.

When we're lying in bed after sex and she's softy caressing my chest and body with her fingernails while none of us say a word.

When she kisses me in a non-sexual way, such as kissing my shoulder, my hand, my cheek etc.

When we're at a public place and she puts her leg on top of mine/half-sits on me to mark her territory.

When she leans her head on my shoulder.

When she holds on to my arm.

Not sure if this became a list of masculine stuff or if it became a list of romantic stuff lol. Not really what you asked for

Similarly, what was one situation where you felt the most masculine in front of a woman? It can either be something you did or her reaction.

Hm, it's pretty hard to come up with a very specific situation. I'm pretty good with my words, so a lot of times if I talk about a specific topic which I'm very knowledgeable about, or If I'm discussing politics with someone, or if I'm doing some sort of a presentation, some women become absolutely mesmerized.

PennnyLame · 2018-06-29T20:16:30+00:00

When she keeps having aftershocks for minutes on the bed after I'm done and it looks like a ghost is fucking her brains out

Bar strangers introducing themselves by asking if they can feel my arms

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yikingyocks · 2018-06-29T23:52:00+00:00

Come to me with a problem, actually listens to me when I explain how to solve the problem an apply the knowledge and get the problem solved.

SweeterPickles · 2018-06-30T02:11:16+00:00

I’m not a forceful person by any means, nor do I often get worked up. But when I project a bit more and a woman gives me that wide eyed flutter, it makes me feel pretty empowered. Just the feeling of having someone’s full attention.

speed3_freak · 2018-06-30T02:45:37+00:00

When I've had a woman ask me to leave my shirt when I leave so she can smell me after I'm gone.

exhibitionistcouplez · 2018-06-30T03:41:29+00:00

Pretty much anything having to do with being enthusiastic about having sex with me because of my body. I feel like I grow a few inches in height every time a girl tells me I have a pretty dick.

Quick_Question_guy · 2018-06-30T05:35:28+00:00

Why would you want to feel masculine? Or feminine? Neither are things to care about. They're not even real.

GayLubeOil · 2018-06-30T13:27:19+00:00

Ha nice try but real men don't feel

SkookumTree · 2018-06-30T16:19:12+00:00

When I can let my metaphorical hair down around her. When I can say "Yeah. That dress makes you look fat" and she won't be angry. When she's very blunt and honest with me about things, which is always nice.

[deleted] · 2018-06-30T16:38:54+00:00

When she asks me to kill cockroaches.

newName543456 · 2018-07-01T22:06:16+00:00

When she's obviously pleased from a sex session and wants to meet for another one.

[deleted] · 2018-07-02T20:28:24+00:00

by sucking my dick and choking on it

wtknight · 2018-06-29T20:10:08+00:00

Everytime I make her orgasm. I’m sure there are other times, but that’s the first one that comes to mind.

tickledpic · 2018-06-29T20:40:15+00:00

When she follows my instructions (for example: get on your knees and take my cock in your mouth).

On a less sexual note: when smiles and is giggly. Puts her hands on my shoulders and chest. Says how she likes how I make her feel.

___Morgan__ · 2018-06-30T02:30:07+00:00

When she completely surrenders to me in bed. I gently hold her neck and I feel like I could end her if I wanted to; that power over life and death is intoxicating.

reaper555 · 2018-06-29T22:06:01+00:00

When she spends my money. You hit my $30K credit limit in a day - impressive.

Title	Q4MEN: In what ways does a woman make you feel incredibly masculine?
Author	vanBeethovenLudwig
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Comments	78
Date	June 29, 2018 7:59 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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