On one hand RPers think women shouldn't "settle" and should never marry men they're not passionately lusting after.

Makes sense. When she does this, doesn't matter if she does it at 18 or 30, virgin or n count of 100, it typically leads to a deadbedroom. And even if it isn't deadbedroom, it's not that passionate sex men desire from women.

On the other hand when women prioritize sex and sexual satisfaction, most men lose out.

I do however think that "'most men lose out" because they don't prioritize being sexually arousing to their lady.

Thoughts !