Day after day, the same posters make the same two points:

1 - Women's expectations are too high!! Betches need to settle for what they can get, and stop expecting six foot Chads with six packs and six figure salaries!

2 - Dead bedrooms are the worst fate a man can ever face! Women just Beta Bux up a chump, then only give starfish sex once in a blue moon!

At the same time, TRP (correctly) points out that you can't negotiate desire. If she's not attracted to a guy, she's not attracted to him - and no amount of wedding rings, presents, monogamy, or begging will help him. But if she is attracted to him, she'll stay happy and make an effort to keep him happy.

Given all of the above, it seems obvious to me that women who follow the advice in point 1 (lowering her standards to a guy she's not attracted to) will become the wife who DBs her husband.

So, what are women supposed to do? Continue to be attracted to the men they are attracted to, or marry a man they're not attracted to?