Edit: Hi, so this is my first post here. I did a poor job explaining and phrasing the question, so I might try again at a later date. But I think some cool conversations are going on, so I wont delete the post.

Thanks for contributing.

Edit 2: It seems this sub has a history of this question being asked in bad faith by incels. Since that's the case, I probably won't ask again, because I'd rather not be harrassed.