It sometimes blows my mind that girls/women will opt for commitment with a not very attractive guy over living independently and getting dicked down well every other week by a hot dude.
If most men could get action as easily as women do, we’d be in bigger trouble. Commitment would be a lot more rare.
I just don’t get what the appeal of stability over years versus banging hot guys with NSA even if they walk out the door right after.
Are hugs and cuddles that powerful?
Edit: learning a bit already but I want to add some context that might help explain why I might be confused at all. Okay, love is real, relationships and commitment and growth are real and make sex better.
But I often hear women married, single, betrothed — doesn’t matter — talking about hot guys or admiring hot guys, reading/fantasizing about em. Is this mostly a selection bias on my part or is that common enough to be an observable thing? Thing here is this sort of admiration or fantasy about hot guys just runs so counter to the love and commitment angle. Women know a hot guy when they see him, do they not want to bang that guy when they do? Even though they talk and think about hot men so much (least in a certain circle of ex coworkers I’ve derived most interaction from)
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