I don't see any evidence either "damage" exists.

However in discussion over the last weeks were first about N-count and now about porn. The same women who argued that N-count has no effect on women's relationships are now claiming that porn obviously "damages" male brains. These two facts are just thrown about without proof.

The arguement follows this pattern:

Guys: assert that N-count ruins a woman's ability to form relationships.

Gals: No, it's irrelevant.*

Next week:

Gals: asserts that porn use ruins a man's ability to form relationships.

Guys: No, it's irrelevant.*

Can someone explain this massive cognitive dissonance?

So what's the differences? How does porn damage a brain but "real sex" doesn't?

* insert a sprinkling of gender traitor pickme's and nofap weirdos.