Think about your life, friends, friends of friends, or family. Is it really that rampant?

Part of me is doubtful that the average woman has 30+ (arbitrary number) partners because we as humans can sometimes generalize and hyper focus on those “exceeding” the norm leading to conflation of that being the average.

Also because:

  1. It’s a huge time and energy suck. Anyone with average intelligence would be cognizant of how they use those two assets

  2. Despite how easier it is for women to attract and have sex with guys, not everyone may realize their capabilities or may be uncomfortable with acting on them.

  3. Social stigma/guilt. No one wants it, and even if you did the deeds that warranted it based on social norms of the time, you’d do your best to never bring it up (from experience and reading here, the question of “how many” generally doesn’t come up anyhow).

  4. The amount of effort required IF you’re the “getting to know them” type.

Edit: To clarify, the question is not saying an average woman in looks or social standing like you’d comment on someone saying, “Oh, they’re average looking/okay.” The average in this case is similar to the mathematical principle, i.e. 10 women line up and give their n count, what would the average be. So, it’s looking at the baseline for most women as opposed to say, the partiers or emotionally damaged. Just a regular human being going about life, are they really having that much sex?