(Rating Male Attractiveness) Anecdotal look at Women vs. Men rating Men

Momitar · 2022-03-14T19:52:59+00:00

Jesús, I’m old. Nearly all of them look between my eldest and middle child’s ages. #7 looks 14-15 years old. Several of those kids haven’t actually grown into their best versions. #10 is a few years and a little exercise away from being objectively attractive. (Not subjectivity attractive, like you’d notice him in a room kind of attractive.) #11 is a good looking guy. He, also, looks like the oldest of this sample. He’s got good features and a pretty symmetrical face. These photos are awful on the whole with the angle. Maybe I’ll ask my daughter later what she thinks because it’s clear I’m too old for this.

nick1812216 · 2022-03-14T19:43:32+00:00

Lol! If these guys are getting such low ratings I’m probably dying alone

EthicallyIlliterate · 2022-03-14T22:25:07+00:00

11 is extremely handsome. Very chiseled features. I do not see how 3 beats him out, 3 has those stupid gauges and his chin is covered

LetsDelveIntoIt1 · 2022-03-14T18:51:54+00:00

I suspect there might be some colorism (possible negative stereotyping) happening with the last one because he has good features.

I find almost all of them 5 and below except 2, 3, and 11. 2 is probably closest to my type followed closely by 11 and 3 rounds out the top three.

simeneta_two · 2022-03-14T18:33:50+00:00

I agree with your wife’s ratings except #3 I’d drop to a 7 - 8.

The Asian JGL (#9) is closest to my type

Ryosuke44 · 2022-03-14T21:09:29+00:00

I found this episode funny and very reflective of the current dating market

80/20 was in full effect and it also showed that even the guy with confidence who she hit it off with didnt stand a chance against both “Chad’s”

Both of the heavily tattooed guys (one of which being a asshole)

modidlee · 2022-03-14T20:52:31+00:00

The interesting thing about the guys rated lower is that they have “softer” looking faces and weaker jawlines. It’s genetics but also other factors can play into that. Being leaner will make the face less soft looking. And it’s been shown that our ancestors had bigger jawbones and stronger jawlines. One key reason for that is that they ate tougher chewier foods than the modern, carbohydrate and processed food-heavy diet. When you take all that into account it could be said that “losing the genetic lottery” might not be that big of a cause of less attractive males. It could be the modern lifestyle that plays an even bigger role than genetics.

arabiandoll · 2022-03-14T20:57:00+00:00

11 is the only good looking one (i’m a woman) if your wife can’t see that the only explanation is that she’s kinda racist / colorist tbh. he has very good and attractive features . the rest are all mostly average to me, some below.

edit : oh and 3 is good looking but definitely not a 9, he doesn’t look masculine enough. id say he’s a 7

TodTheRod01 · 2022-03-15T01:47:08+00:00

Also how the F does #3 scream bad boy??

Looks like some goof with a slick back/pompadour and shitty beard

floralgirl2002 · 2022-03-14T21:22:45+00:00

they are all unnattractive tbh

2 is decent looking, probably a 5 or 6, but could get up to an 8 if we went to the gym (also depends on height)

not sure what the fuss about #3 is, defs wouldnt call him a chad, he would look terrible without the beard, hes small, no muscle mass, not much height, and the gauge earings make him look poor and unhygienic (not a bad boy at all)

cvslengthbucketlist · 2022-03-14T19:03:37+00:00

Is it just me or could it be that people are being influenced by your descriptions? I think it would work better if the ratings were spoiler tagged so people can rate first and then check the "answers." #9 is not bad looking but he seems really average for an "Asian JGL." Or maybe looks is just super subjective.

vredditcocksucker · 2022-03-15T00:10:33+00:00

I would say (as a man) the only ones who are above average looking are 2 (7), 3 (6.5) and 11 (7). The rest either look too young, overweight, or just not good.

Orange_Paisley · 2022-03-14T18:45:01+00:00

I’d rate them all a 5.

carcasstribunal · 2022-03-14T19:52:22+00:00

Man i must be meeting pretty ugly people irl, 2 and 3 are 7/10 according to me and the rest of them are 6 except two of them.

I dont really consider anyone below 4 if we now see 5/10 as average. Then again im a guy and most of my friends told me i have low standards on looks in both men and women.

Edit: that your wife wanted to give #7 1/10 is ridiculous. Dude has no acne, he is not fat and he isnt repulsively ugly. I think i your 4/10 makes it a lot more justice. He is definitely just average to me.

ekando · 2022-03-15T03:24:04+00:00

I don't see anything wrong with 7 or 11, I'd rate them both much higher. Number 7 isn't, like, strikingly handsome but he's definitely cute!

Flightlessbirbz · 2022-03-15T03:44:16+00:00

Most of these guys strike me as pretty average, except for #11 who actually has pretty good features. And #7 who unfortunately looks 10.

Mark_Freed · 2022-03-15T07:27:41+00:00

K enough ppd for today

-ShesACarnival- · 2022-03-14T22:13:51+00:00

there are only 3 ratings: attractive, invisible, and ugly. every man in this list is invisible to ugly. i dont know what purpose is being served by disingenuously assigning them numbers from 1-10

Stunning-Potato-1984 · 2022-03-14T18:43:03+00:00

9 is the best looking. #3, I hate the gauges and the fade. I just can't with that.

sinisterforces · 2022-03-15T02:39:57+00:00

So many of these guys would look better did they groom more and hit the gym/lost weight.

Apocalypstik · 2022-03-15T03:01:19+00:00

I think they all look like teenagers.

ididntwanttoexist · 2022-03-15T07:04:02+00:00

4
4
5.5
4
5
4
6
6
6
4
5.5

Like the girls, all flawed in different ways but overall meh looking people, many with too high body fat to see full potential. Most also have hairstyles or facial hair I hate. Tried to just focus on their basic facial structure/proportions, but it can really change the way someone looks. 3 is being overrated; when you see him talk on the speed date, it looks like he's sculpting hard with that beard to hide lack of definition, and that probably will never improve since he's one of the skinniest ones there already. Last dude is underrated, has good features, just needs to sort out the eyebrow situation and exfoliate. Idc so much about height and liked smol dude. He didn't look quite as crazy young in motion, but hairstyle isn't working at all. Just femboymaxx bro.

wtknight · 2022-03-15T12:15:23+00:00

These guys are all in the 3 to 4 range to me with a couple of 2s. Men aren’t aesthetically appealing to me.

painfurouartacc · 2022-03-15T07:30:23+00:00

they all look meh honestly

TodTheRod01 · 2022-03-15T01:45:57+00:00

Not gonna lie i didnt give anyone of those higher than a 5

livs4dietdrpepper · 2022-03-14T20:39:39+00:00

Your wife has great taste. I would have put 6, 10, and 11 higher tho

lonely_mixtape · 2022-03-14T19:09:01+00:00

wait I actually thought #10 was quite good looking. Easily the best out of all of the guys there imo.

BrofLong · 2022-03-14T19:48:30+00:00

As #7 guy (not literally): chuckles I'm in danger

IndifferentImp · 2022-03-14T19:57:27+00:00

I'd put 7 as 3 points ahead of me out of 10, if your wife gave him a 2, I think I just might have to take the ldar route more seriously...

pinoyboy93 · 2022-03-15T05:52:58+00:00

3 does not look like a Chad at all and none are over a 5.5.

krischens · 2022-03-15T09:49:12+00:00

From the pictures of the guys they really seem unremarkable. I wouldn't say that anyone is particularly good-looking, but on the other hand, none of them is ugly. From the video, it's a bit easier to judge, and probably only two guys would fall into the 7+ category - 3 and 8. Everyone else is 4-5, maybe 6.

bostonstrong1981 · 2022-03-15T11:35:15+00:00

Just goes to show that looks are subjective to a degree. I would rate #11 as an 8. He was the 2nd most attractive guy there. I found #2 to be one of the ugliest ones.

Magnito-was-right · 2022-03-15T11:51:27+00:00

The blonde guy you gave a 2 was the most attractive to me, I give him an 8. Asian Joseph Gordon Levitt was the second cutest. I would give him a 7. I don’t find any of the others attractive, but looks are subjective.

DatingVX · 2022-03-15T14:08:10+00:00

#7 is the most upsetting to me lol. Like, a 1-3 score is like .. my 600lbs life type of stuff. He looks very clean, his personality is a 9, hair nice, pose cool, watch on, it feels wrong giving him a low score. But being small really does affect things ay. He looks boyish.

death_by_1000_cats · 2022-03-14T18:46:49+00:00

Only one I think is cute is the guy with long hair

philomexa · 2022-03-14T18:40:53+00:00

I don't have the time to rate all of them, but the tatt'd guy is the most attractive(7/10) and would catch my eye IRL. The rest are NPCs that have at least 1 or several disqualifying "flaws".

Pola_Lita · 2022-03-14T20:03:01+00:00

Not a lot of masculinity outside of 2, 3 and 11.

2 and 3 would be 8

11 would be 6

4, 5, and 9 would be 5

1, 6, 7, 8 and 10 would be 4

I felt cringes watching the video and I wouldn't want to be part of it.

This was still fun, though.

666lucy6 · 2022-03-15T09:54:50+00:00

All of these men are below average and I wouldn't date a single one. All the men I've ever met are way more attractive then this and even dudes In my social circle that i would consider ugly look better then this group. Every single one is a 3 or below. Except that one "Chad dude" he's like a 4 on a good day but still undatable in my eyes.

heyitsjeapeagain · 2022-03-14T19:21:47+00:00

They’re guys. I can’t tell.

Mrs_Drgree · 2022-03-14T19:31:56+00:00

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AidsVictim · 2022-03-15T06:35:47+00:00

3: https://imgur.com/gallery/jrQwgjb

Wife: 9 - Me: 8.5

Obvious chad is obvious. My wife likes the tatted 'bad-boy' look.

He's pretty average looking I think. Like 5 or 6.

None of the men here are especially handsome.

8: https://imgur.com/gallery/QcaGhU2

Wife: 6 - Me: 6

Wife said he looks like he takes care of himself but he "isn't amazingly handsome."

He's straight up ugly IMO. 4

9: https://imgur.com/gallery/ku6v2lh

Wife: 8 - Me: 7

Wife said he "looks like an Asian Joseph Gordon-Levitt". Cute, but only gets an 8 because he's a little short.

This guy is probably the most attractive of the bunch and a 6 or 7

DXBrigade · 2022-03-14T18:42:37+00:00

me (woman) based on face/pictures alone:

- 1 : 8

-2 : 6

-3 : 8

- 4 : 6

- 5 : 5

- 6 : 6

- 7: looks underage *

- 8: 7

- 9: 8

- 10: 5

- 11 : 4

Habil13 · 2022-03-14T19:26:41+00:00

How are only two guys: “below average”?

I feel like 11,10,7, and 5 lost the genetic lottery.

-ShesACarnival- · 2022-03-14T19:29:10+00:00

they are all zero

goatismycopilot · 2022-03-14T20:13:08+00:00

I thought it was a meh group but your wife over rated the guy with the highest number.

errrright · 2022-03-14T20:25:45+00:00

I don't like the number scale thing because that isn't how I actually interpret attractiveness, so here are my thoughts -

1: He's okay, but I don't like his haircut.

2: I would find him to be the best looking of the bunch if he had a beard

3: Good looking, but I'm not a fan of the gauges.

4: Not into him at all.

5: He's okay, but needs better posture and a beard

6: Kinda cute!

7: Way too boyish

8: I think he's cute, but would be better with a different hairstyle

9: Cute, but too boyish

10: He's decent looking, but would be better with groomed eyebrows and no acne

11: Decent, but would be better with groomed eyebrows

ChromaticVengeance · 2022-03-14T20:42:41+00:00

The second guy is ugly, no offense.

The best looking is the first, only if he weren’t fat.

Would not date any of them except for 7, his face is the best among them, even though was the shortest. I also recall he had a good personality at first glance.

beatrixkilldo · 2022-03-14T22:51:41+00:00

4

2-4

3-7

4-4

5-4

6-4

7-3 8-5 9-4 10-4 11-3

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Kay_Lore · 2022-03-14T22:09:32+00:00

7, 8, 7, 5, 4, 5, 4, 6, 8, 4, 6 is how I’d rate them in order.

ffandyy · 2022-03-14T23:29:57+00:00

So you pretty much judge people the same

WAGMIBFAA · 2022-03-15T00:07:53+00:00

If these are the ratings I’m looking pretty good lol.

StarchRunner · 2022-03-15T02:03:46+00:00

They all look average except for a few. I'd say the ranges are 3.5-6.5 here.

You both have weird tastes.

_Fat_Vag97 · 2022-03-15T02:12:37+00:00

Question . Did you include full body pictures and height into this ?

luv_ya · 2022-03-15T02:15:25+00:00

Interesting

xcheshirecatxx · 2022-03-15T03:50:25+00:00

I don't have an issue with short guys, but 7 just looks like a 10 yo

HeartCatchHana · 2022-03-15T04:21:41+00:00

All this guys are either 4 - 6

Spiritual-Nail-1753 · 2022-03-15T11:28:50+00:00

There is consequences, Always.

Hoopy223 · 2022-03-15T14:32:47+00:00

I look a lot like the guy in #5 that she torpedoed. Ouch.

cloudnymphe · 2022-03-15T15:41:20+00:00

1: 5/10 he’s very average looking, basic haircut, doesn’t do anything special to his look. He looks like a lot of men I walk by on the street.

2: 7/10 he has lovely hair and his face is decent looking. I’d be interested in him. Mainly because of his hair. He would probably look better if he stopped making that expression (in the begging as he’s being rated) where he’s scrunching up his face, but you can tell he’s doing it cause he’s self conscious about being looked at. it’s kind of cute.

3: 7.5/10 he’s attractive, and you can tell he puts effort into his looks (moreso than any of the other men in this lineup). He’s not my type but I do like the ear gauges and tats.

4: 5.6/10 also pretty average looking, he has attractive facial features but he’s carrying a bit of extra weight in his face. Although If he put more effort in to his style and had a good haircut he could increase his attractiveness easily. He convinced his friend to invest in crypto.

5: 5/10 he looks like that generic tall white guy who goes on a date and only wants to have a discussion about craft beer, why his favorite soccer team is gonna make a major comeback this season, and how his friend is helping him invest in cryptocurrency and his investment in dodgecoin is gonna make him rich. And he tries to get you to come white river rafting with him next weekend. He listens to Macklemore.

6: 4/10 also average looking. He’s not unattractive but he resembles tons of other guys.

7: 5/10 Short king. He’s kind of cute but I don’t really fuck with that haircut.

6/10 he’s also pretty average but out of the others in the lineup he has more open body language. He seems more chill I get the feeling that he doesn’t have any issues dating.
7.4/10 He is cute, and he has a great haircut. Good for him.
4/10 I feel bad for him that he’s likely getting a bad rating due to his skin. I relate to you there bro, dealing with acne sucks. But he’s quite average like the other guys in this lineup.
7.8/10 why are there 11 people in this one and only 10 in the women’s version of this?? Anyway, he’s good looking. Would be a bit better looking if he went to the salon and got his eyebrows threaded but I hear that shit hurts so I don’t blame him if he doesn’t want to. My fried did that and said the woman was just threading away while he was crying. But at least his eyebrows looked good.

I rated just off the screenshots without watching the whole video. After watching the video, their personalities (mostly) make them more attractive than just from the photos. A lot of them seem to have cool personalities. Number 9 gives me bad vibes though for some reason even though I find him one of the best looking.

In my opinion the women in the female version of this video are more attractive than these dudes. But maybe I’m just biased towards finding women more attractive in general. I would not say any of these men are ugly but they all just look like average guys and and wouldn’t really stand out to me. Although as I mentioned in my comment on the other post a major reason for that is likely do with the women’s beauty routines and they wouldn’t be better looking than the men if you took that factor away. Most of the women are better groomed and have full faces of makeup and their hair done. Those things make a difference, considering the women who had short hair and no makeup was rated more harshly.

Reisiluu · 2022-03-15T15:58:02+00:00

It's like they picked bland men on purpose. This is not what I see everyday in public.

01011001011000010110 · 2022-03-15T16:42:21+00:00

The women rating here have a horrible taste, especially the ones saying that everyone of them is ugly.

I don't get the one with number 2. I have long hair myself but I don't see how his features makes him go that high. Also 11 is a lot more attractive than most of you say.

Separate-Presence · 2022-03-15T17:21:56+00:00

9 and 11 are the best looking. 4 is the worst.

I’m a white woman for what it’s worth. 🤷🏻‍♀️

HazyMemory7 · 2022-03-15T19:36:33+00:00

Ya'll are both relatively generous I think. #3 and #9 are nowhere near what I would consider a 9 or an 8. Most of these guys are well below to slightly above average. 9+ is reserved for guys like Henry Cavill, Zac Efron, Jason Momoa, Chris Evans ect...

NotQuiteHapa · 2022-03-15T23:42:26+00:00

Your wife is racist, lol. #10 and #11 are a lot better looking than she's giving them credit for and giving white guys halo points.

cheapraccoon777 · 2022-03-16T03:54:28+00:00

Your wife is right on about 9.

OwOFemboyUwU · 2022-03-16T14:49:49+00:00

Brutal fucking jbwpill

DerekMorganBAU · 2022-03-16T16:39:30+00:00

No black guys. Typical 😂

Title	(Rating Male Attractiveness) Anecdotal look at Women vs. Men rating Men
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Date	March 14, 2022 6:23 PM UTC (10 months ago)
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(Rating Male Attractiveness) Anecdotal look at Women vs. Men rating Men

9 is the best looking. #3, I hate the gauges and the fade. I just can't with that.

FACTS

3 does not look like a Chad at all and none are over a 5.5.